Some colleges and universities set up psychological counseling agencies,moncler outlet italia,http://www.scopesys.com/cgi-bin/today2.cgi, the students counseling psychological problems arise.<br>Because a dog with a roommate conflict, a female university student in a university in Qingdao was to commit suicide, thanks to their parents to discover. Psychological experts point out that this may be due to the difference in the ability of anti-frustration caused by social maladjustment, should learn self-regulation, to try to change themselves to adapt to society.<br> <br>Roommate was squeezed, female students was to commit suicide<br> <br>Mr Li's daughter is a college sophomore in Qingdao, this year, just 20 years old. Lee said, sharing a dormitory with her daughter was eight girls from Linyi, Jining and other places, the daughter of a good relationship with them, a weekend with his relationship with his daughter will be the best home for dinner Xiao Wu and Wang wife Xiao Wu and Wang will help wash clothes, "we feel the children is not easy on the outside,http://www.y0374.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=20909, plus and daughter and live together, but also help us take care of her."<br> <br>So, Mike and students live in peace together spent more than a year of university life. Available early May day,http://goobike.com/cgi-bin/search/zaiko_bike.cgi, Mike came home without saying a word hid in the house, but do not want to go back to the dorm to class lived. Mr. Li and his wife asked insinuations, nor any results,piumini woolrich sito ufficiale, until one day, his wife on her wrist to see the two with a knife across the traces, only thought of her daughter locked himself in the house attempted suicide.<br> <br>Lee and her daughter had a deep talk. Originally, Xiao Wu Xiao Wu's boyfriend gave a puppy, Xiao Wu insisted kept in the dormitory. Because the school dormitory banned pets, Mike found himself worried that if the school will be affected, plus dog will taste great, they raised objections. This makes very angry Xiao Wu, Wang and other students she draw a collective exclusion Li, said she was not caring person,http://www13.plala.or.jp/gakuki3/cgi_bin/aska/aska.cgi, she did not want to live in a dormitory, claiming that put her out of the hostel.<br> <br>School together every day,http://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/make-your-own-website-mobile-web-design-builder-digital-item-/181281492980?/shockwave/download/download.cgi, eat, school classmates,http://tuonela.s138.xrea.com/lightbbs/light.cgi?res=1914, suddenly became a stranger, but also often to Li sarcastic,http://eiga.yokkaichi.org/sunbbs2/sunbbs.cgi?mode=form&no=1942&page=:http://eiga.yokkaichi.org/sunbbs2/sunbbs.cgi?mode=form&no=1942&page=, which makes Li difficult to accept, at home grew more and more angry, I thought of suicide.<br> <br>Mike's father hastened to take their child to the hospital to find 401 expert advice, experts believe that Li has been suffering from mild depression, need long-term psychological counseling. It is understood that Li was still at home resting, she attended school has been involved in this, counselor teacher began to Mike's roommate and fellow students to understand the situation.<br> <br>Educational less frustration, poor compression only child<br> <br>Deputy director of Qingdao City Mental Health Center Guanjun analysts say Li's performance since childhood, she was such a situation in psychology is called "social maladjustment" and she chose to commit suicide is a way to escape extreme manifestation suited to community . "It also spoiled with today's kids, the parents over to meet and so have a great relationship," said Guanjun,tn reuqin pas cher, such children is poor compression capability, only a single way to solve the problem.<br> <br>"Different and junior high school life, university life interaction between people is a very important element," mental hospital director said that this association has been relatively close interpersonal relationships in society, this situation is like Mike suited to such contacts lead to depression.<br> <br>Li Yuhuan analyzed that caused her to this case for two reasons, one is too little setbacks of her education, and now most families have only one child,piumini woolrich sito ufficiale, from birth to grow up, a child has been the center of the family, parents everything kids are along, do not want to fight them, so that the child will think that their idea is correct, can not accept different opinions. Another reason is that parents are too concerned about the children, the children from small to large do, listen to the parents of his friends, often cause the child into the community later, he will not deal with things, an encounter small setback can not stand.<br> <br>"Psychological resilience poor, is now a common problem in many one-child", Guanjun said, consider themselves to others how, people can also use the same way to treat yourself. In addition, this situation is relatively more girls, boys because of the relatively broad-brush terms, girls are more sensitive character, experience things tend to think than more.<br> <br>Expert advice<br> <br>Psychological therapy to learn to adapt to society<br> <br>"In fact, we should all recognize this, that human relationships are not equivalent to the exchange," said Guanjun, people like Li are generally on their own demanding that I good to others, others will surely be good to me . She believes that if this relationship like this to deal with the emergence of contrast, may not accept, emotional problems. In addition, such people are generally relatively strong personality, want to control others for the good of others, if someone bad for her, she might be difficult to accept.<br> <br>Guanjun said, in fact, easier than others to change their change. Li can be achieved by re-cognition of self and surroundings, found their presence on personality traits and behavior problems, by changing their own personality and exchanges of problem areas, and strengthen the skills to communicate with people, and others to establish a good relationships, so that their fit with the environment regained status.<br> <br>Professor of Sociology Department of Qingdao University School of Law-day operation Meng think, Mike classmate dog encountered problems,tn reuqin pas cher, first of all should stick to their point of view,http://www.res99.com/nexres/search/power_search.cgi, the impact should not be subject roommate to change their mentality. And Mike's students in dealing with problems are too selfish, did not take into account the feelings of others. "Students living in the dorms, is a kind of group life, if you do not consider the feelings of others in the community will be more difficult to get along with others," Professor Meng told reporters.<br> <br>Experts point out that parents should give their children to the point of "protective hardship," as far as possible delays, etc. to meet their children after experiencing setbacks in order to improve their courage and ability to overcome difficulties. For Li this case, we recommend her psychotherapy, can be self-regulation, to learn about its inclusiveness hold different views of others, to accept and own different things at the same time increase their mental width, improve their psychological qualities.<br> <br>Our reporter Zhang Xiao Yuan Yang Ningshe<br><br>
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