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Liu Fei receiving treatment. Around to donate a kidney, and his son was in trouble. Liu Hongrong son said to his wife, the family will stay together after re-cultivate their feelings. Cut the kidney to save the child: the mother why "chicken escape" Our reporter Jiang Gewei special correspondent Huang Qinghua Yang Muxuan Liu Fei: "! The world is too absurd to me as much a nobody taste of mother!" Liu Hongrong: "If the son is not the case, I have to call you afraid of death you die!" Zhu Jiexiu: "I am one of the problems, even if the kidney is good, given the doll into a basket case I could not do both at home and live, you (Liu Hongrong) to support it ah you always want me to donate a kidney to a doll, into account.? Debu long-term. " This is the Sichuan Guangyuan Jiange County North Miaoxiang Liu Hongrong a dialogue. Uremia dialysis boys their own money August 18, 2011, Sichuan University, West China Hospital ward. Liu Fei has lived here for nearly two weeks time, in the two weeks, the boats to do every day is an intravenous drip, do hemodialysis to sustain his life. Boats lying quietly in bed, he felt a little headache. This is the first 12 days he was hospitalized due to yesterday before doing four hours of dialysis, he was very tired at the moment. According to doctors, the boats are very optimistic about the current condition of his kidneys has been completely necrosis, if not performed kidney transplant as soon as possible, this young life will quietly fade away. Liu Fei is Guangyuan Jiange, he lived in the mountains. Liu Fei two and a half, the parents went to Guangdong to work. These years, Liu Fei has been followed by grandparents and grandparents live. Last November, the sophomore high school in Guangyuan sword of state Liu Fei fever, general weakness, to the hospital for an examination, first diagnosed as anemia, diagnosed after a double kidney failure, uremia late. A month later, the parents accompany Liu Fei came to Chengdu, was admitted to West China Hospital for treatment. Last year,babyliss curl pas cher, Chinese New Year is Liu Fei these years,karen millen outlet, first with their parents over the years. Since dialysis three times a week, parents rented a house in Cuqiao, Liu Fei and his mother Zhu Jiexiu live in Chengdu, Guangyuan Liu Hongrong then back to work. April Zhu Jiexiu also back home. "Worried about the father of a man too tired to run around outside." Inspired by patients boats Liang Tao again, learn like running from the Mount. Because the hospital is too expensive hospital bills, boats had rented a house in the suburbs, go to the hospital every day to do a hemodialysis treatment. After seeing patients again Liang Tao ran Moldova to make money, Liu parents flew in 1900 dollars, bought an electric tricycle. Since December last year, nearly half of the time, life boats out basic is eight o'clock to open tricycle operators, the daily income is thirty or forty dollars, the afternoon went to the West China Hospital, 20 km away, to do hemodialysis treatment. Mothers do go back before transplant Hospital told Liu Hongrong couples, Liu Fei, the only way to salvation is to donate a kidney. According to the doctor introduced Tang Wanxin, Liu Fei's underlying disease is chronic glomerulonephritis, renal insufficiency appeared, and has developed to the stage uremia. Liu Fei disease has been part of a complete loss of kidney function stage, we must rely on long-term dialysis to sustain life. "If you want to have normal kidney function, then we have to do a kidney transplant." Looked at his son can only rely on dialysis to sustain life, together and made a decision - to donate a kidney. By the end of 2010, the couple are in West China Hospital were examined, the results show and son, is a B-type blood. Subsequently, Zhu Jiexiu to the Notary Office notarized, for a variety of procedures, he agreed to donate a kidney to his son. On a public certificate carry, the reporter saw such a statement: I voluntarily donate a kidney organ transplant treatment to his son Liu Fei, and voluntarily assume any risks and adverse consequences arising from transplant surgery. Inscribed location, handwriting rightly says Zhu Jiexiu name. April this year, the hospital notice Liu Fei, a kidney transplant can be performed, and also prepared to lend money lobbied surgery. However, Zhu Jiexiu there are different views. Do a matching, the Zhu Jiexiu in Chengdu and Guangyuan find several hospitals for tests, find out that they have chronic bronchitis, rheumatism, lumbar disc herniation and other diseases. "If you donate a kidney, certainly sequelae." Zhu Jiexiu told her husband. "When typing say agree, came to her surgery is not done." he said that in order to convince his wife to donate a kidney, he promised to take care of by his wife after kidney donation, do not her to work,karen millen sale,http://ameetshomestyle.com, but has not agree. In a text message sent to his wife, said: you stand,http://www.serow250.com, you will not find everything after us? Zhu Jiexiu then replied: You want to be too naive now. Before long,mbt outlet, Zhu Jiexiu from Chengdu to Guangyuan to go back. May 15, Liu Hongrong again, and his wife about the matter, but Zhu Jiexiu still refused to budge. Angrily, Liu Hongrong took her cell phone and ID card, the couple have lived separately, no longer meet. Liu Hongrong also said, then we should not donate a kidney and Zhu Jiexiu divorce. By the end of July, to work in Guangdong. I learned the news of the boats has been silent. Since then, Liu Fei QQ signature wrote, "The world is ridiculous! I'm as much a nobody flavor mother!" Mother absent son "Thanksgiving List" With the departure of his wife, son born of hope lopsided. "Preoperative away booklet and other information from the hospital and refused to donate a kidney." Liu Ying (physician's assistant) recalled to reporters, which allow doctors greatly surprised, because the doctors opinion, Liu Fei mother's body situation, there is nothing wrong for kidney donation. But for those who have decided not to donate, the hospital can only respect the decision of the parties,http://overloadgames.x0.com, not mandatory donations. "If there were a sudden end of the day life,http://www.wifigx.com/forum.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, I wish I could quietly leave, at least, I do not worry because this dispute." Liu Fei know, because of his parents' stalemate sky, he does not want to talk in front of reporters his mother. "To thank those in my life which, to my loved ones warm!" Liu fly reporters talk more gratitude, and gratitude in his list, the exception does not appear Zhu Jiexiu, his mother. "The first is my aunt, a son to me than to be kissed their loved ones,http://cgi.kwkwkw.com," Liu Fei's aunt Tanggui Qing, in boats this time of illness, has been guarding the boats around, "Help me Dafan, tease I am happy, even at the bedside night escort. If you do not mind, please let me call your mom soon, okay? " "Then my father .45 years old, he learned the day my condition, almost overnight bald. You work hard, Dad!" "Next,http://www.getjealous.com, I want to thank is my 'uncle' Liang Tao again, saying it was his uncle, in fact, he was one of my patients, the only difference is that my mom walked out before the kidney transplant, and his father in a few years prior to donate his own kidney. " In memory of Liu Fei, Zhu Jiexiu but there is a "mother" appellation of strangers. "Since I can remember, my mother and my father working outside year round, especially less time to spend three of us, I think about my mom is not enough." For the mother refused to donate a kidney, heart boats seems to be a heavy blow, the expression is very tangled. Aunt Tanggui Qing told reporters from her mother walked out of the day, the mood becomes irritable boats a lot, the big 18-year-old boy because my mother left and produced a very strong emotional resistance, but, in front of outsiders He habitually shut their hearts. After many setbacks mother return Zhu Jiexiu July 24 left Sichuan. In Guangdong, a window and door station leaves the factory, you can earn about 2,000 yuan a month. said, she remembered his son's condition during the working day, "I often could not eat even rice." "I'm sorry he did not say to go soon." In addition, she also continued to receive relatives and friends call telephone, mostly advised her to donate a kidney, some speech is still intense. Turning to his original choice to leave Cause: had wanted to donate a kidney, and later physical examination found that he had bronchitis, cervical spondylitis, rheumatism and other diseases, "the house is donated two patients, and he was a man for but to." August 18, at her husband's persuasion, Zhu Jiexiu back to Chengdu. At this point, it has not met for four months mother looked slightly embarrassed. Zhu Jiexiu saw his son lying on the bed, looked very nervous, two hands together, standing in the doorway has been reluctant to go in. And Liu Fei also urging the others, only to bow shouted loudly, "Mom." In patients reminder, Liu Fei was holding his mother's hand and said: "Mom,scarpe mbt outlet, I do not blame you,http://zjpwjy.com/bbs/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=191480, as long as you come back to take care of me." Although not how to speak between mother and child, but had champagne still very happy. He also gave his wife and son said, after a person stay together, re-cultivate their feelings. said that he did not do often to the mother's responsibility and remorse in Guangdong, "At that time did not dare to face the reality, because the family simply can not afford the medical expenses, he chose to escape." After seeing media coverage after the Liu Fei I changed my mind decided to return to save his son. "So many good people are concerned about him, I Zeneng not save him." August 17 afternoon,http://www.replication.jp, Zhu Jiexiu told her husband, as long as the body is no problem, he is willing to donate a kidney to save his son, "My son is my body out of the meat, I am sure to give him medical treatment." Faced with criticism, Zhu Jiexiu think that when he did not flee, nor do not want to save his son, but can not afford the medical expenses in the face, she did not want to do surgery. "Before she considered more comprehensive, I had to force her not to." Liu Hongrong said that these days he and his wife talked a lot, but also know Zhu Jiexiu original idea. Now he knows, there are two at home after surgery patient, a lot of economic pressure is definitely bigger. But he said he would take care of his wife and son. The hospital has given the mother and son operation register, they are expected to perform a kidney transplant next month. However, faced with the surgery cost a hundred thousand dollars, to see hope of a family of three fell into silence. View: Counselors Tao Ping: when we stand the moral high ground to evaluate a person, often biased. Zhu Jiexiu undoubtedly want to treat their son, or she could not do matching. The status quo working outside year round, the economy is not very well-off, so that a sense of crisis in her heart a little bit of accumulation, such as her husband's neglect, and even her own sick body proposed worried when her husband did not understand, or even coercion; coupled with their children because of her long-term do not live together, feeling relatively weak, all her worries. And Zhu Jiexiu himself unable to resolve these pressures, so she subconsciously chose to flee. If we change the perspective to understand her, give her some reminders, maybe she would not have so much fear, will not give birth to so many contradictions. Xiangtan University law professor loving Europe: from a moral and legal point of view, the mother is under no obligation to provide a kidney for their adult children, not to mention possible sacrificing own premises; however, as a mother, her actions Obviously hurt public perception of "Motherhood" the term, many people will not consciously think, she is not a good mother. Sichuan Provincial Academy of Social Sciences Professor Hu Guangwei: standing legal point of view, the practice understandable. And even standing on the moral level, people should not be condemned Zhu Jiexiu choice. The organ donation is voluntary, we can not condemn the mother, she said she refused to help. Taking into account the family, ethics, also did not say the mother must give his son to donate a kidney. For Zhu Jiexiu decision, the family should be given respect, and try to stand her of perspective. Share: welcome to comment I want to comment Microblogging Recommended | today's hot microblogging 

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