<br>Couple New Year budget is only 500 yuan, the remaining male fear of parents "forced"<br> <br>Scenery lawyers have enjoyed career low for two years when "fear of return family"<br> <br>Do not want to go back, it is discredited see elders<br> <br>Spring Festival approaching, a lot of people lined up all night to buy tickets to go home, while some people are full of bitterness, hesitated again afraid to go home.<br> <br>These people, so-called "fear of return family."<br> <br>"Fear of return family" chose not to go home, not because they do not look forward to the reunion. In fact, they are eager to go home than for the average person still strong.<br> <br>However, for various reasons, so that their way back home extraordinarily difficult,gCtkLJwIn2, so they choose to stay alone in a foreign land to spend the Spring Festival.<br> <br>Today, the reporter interviewed several "fear of return family", home to share with everyone the story behind them.<br> <br>Buy became negative Weng, only 500 yuan couple New Year Budget<br> <br>Zhao: institutions permanent staff; hometown: Anhui Chizhou<br> <br>Zhao, 27 years old, his hometown in Anhui Province countryside.<br> <br>In the fellow eyes, he is a very capable guy.<br> <br>In 2009,YqmRGL0F65, he was admitted to an institution for the preparation of Zhenhai, 2010, they bought a house, got married, career,646GCoHVY8, family are considered to have a certain foundation, envy of a lot of their peers.<br> <br>However, Xiao Zhao said, the heart of the bitter know.<br> <br>This year is the first Spring Festival after the couple married, presumably, the new wife how they have to go back to see her in-laws, uncles, but the couple was afraid to go home.<br> <br>Reason lies in the buy.<br> <br>Xiao Zhao said his budget constraints, to buy a house down payment of 200,000 yuan, all friends and family to take home, plus decoration and wedding loan, now owed "a debt ass."<br> <br>Moreover, Xiao Zhao loan of 45 million yuan, 3000 yuan monthly mortgage, plus soaring prices, big spending day to the couple's income less than what basically save money.<br> <br>"If you go home, the face of all creditors, since it can not pay back the money, whatever the outcome is also going to visit bend the rules, right?" Zhao calculations account: the 15 terms, tobacco buy milk every two or three one hundred, it is necessary to 4000 yuan; to Enter the money more than a thousand, come home, at least 6,000 yuan.<br> <br>Xiao Zhao said the house was renovated, can have no money to buy a refrigerator,piumini woolrich outlet, "6000, enough for me to buy two refrigerator."<br> <br>He's going to be before the Spring Festival, and his wife went to the Carrefour supermarket to buy two pounds of bacon, a few fish, some vegetables, fruits and snacks, and then buy some fireworks, "do not go out, you stay home to watch TV, the budget is 500 . "<br> <br>30-year-old men left, discredited in the face parents hope daughter's eyes<br> <br>Yu: Foreign trade company employees,jo1GvlWhlS; hometown: Jiangxi Yichun<br> <br>Yu Jiangxi Yichun, in foreign trade company, this year has been nominal age 30, and still single.<br> <br>Two days ago, he gave his hometown called and lied to travel abroad, the Chinese New Year is not back.<br> <br>"I am not filial,woolrich outlet italia, there is no way, a week to the home phone, say a few words to ask his girlfriend to do, go back how to explain?"<br> <br>Mr Yu said, in fact, want to go back and feel the warmth of home,piumini woolrich outlet, but the thought of my parents eager eyes,Y2m4XUFe96, nagging nagging,moncler outlet, still not back to the good.<br> <br>Last year, he'd go home New Year.<br> <br>May be two weeks, the family came to propose marriage of two. "My mom started early to prepare, have been styled, and for her, no matter what the conditions are, that does not consider is not for me."<br> <br>Yu refused to give in, the results kept on the side of the mother advised: "! Winter someone gives you a warm blanket Ye Hao, a person how cold ah"<br> <br>Dad did not talk much, but resounding: "married, not you one thing."<br> <br>Yu said he also wanted to shake off single, but could not find suitable.<br> <br>"Parents urged again and again, if fallen on deaf ears, cold treatment, will hurt their hearts, rather than let them sad, it is better not to return."<br> <br>Career low for two years "fear of return", unforgettable bite "KFC" lonely New Year's Eve<br> <br>Mr. 31-year-old to be a lawyer,aIyPc1hvcN, Hunan.<br> <br>To outsiders, his family happy,29a65Kg20X, stable income, envy. However, he told reporters, who also worked for two years "fear of return family."<br> <br>By the end of 2007, he graduated three years, but was dismissed former unit, career hit rock bottom.<br> <br>Lost his job can not explain to his family, Mr. Spring Festival that year dared to return home.<br> <br>"What impressed me most is the big New Year's Eve night, the window of fireworks, crowded, I am a man lying in bed watching television,GfQmca1Wt9, abnormal deserted inside the house, then feel like the loneliest person in the world."<br> <br>It was the first time in his life a person had New Year's Eve.<br> <br>In 2008, Mr. Cheng passed the judicial exam, intern at a law firm, the monthly salary is only 1,000 yuan, life stretched.<br> <br>"Graduation four years, the situation with the family to explain how?" That year, Yu and no home.<br> <br>A second New Year's Eve alone, restaurants, fast food restaurants what were closed, he went to only one person to eat KFC.<br> <br>After several days ate another burger.<br> <br>Until 2009, Mr. Cheng's career has been improvement, and longtime girlfriend also intend to get married,piumini woolrich outlet, was with his girlfriend home for a reunion of the Spring Festival.<br><br>
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