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Xiaoyang in some Internet cafes recording reporter Zhang Bridge Photo His one-year Internet 416 times At least twelve hours a day mostly overnight His obsession with online games Overdraft credit card to buy equipment owed 34,000 yuan Chinese Commercial News reporters Zheng Youshi and Xi Shengpeng clear 365 days a year, the number of Internet cafes reached 416 into the second; eat and drink Lazard sleep, sometimes in the cafe resolved; for team play "Legend", often went to the middle of the night from a two-way Internet access Nanping. This is a single-parent family in a year 24-year-old boy Internet records. In addition to his daily work,scarpe hogan, the other time in Internet cafes, Internet at least twelve hours a day, mostly through the night. Because addicted to online games, more than three years he lost several jobs; because there was no money to buy games and equipment, he organized multiple credit cards to cash, when unable to repay, he chose to escape, forcing his father to help him repay. Fortunately, lost to six days later, he finally wake up, safely back. He lives in northern New 24-year-old Yang (pseudonym) in lost contact after six days, at 18 am Mr. Mu returned to his father's. 19 am, in the North Zone gold open road, a restaurant, where father and son meet reporters interviewed. recording Clubbing every day Internet access up to 416 times a year After meeting with Mr. Mu and a small sun, the reporter went to a nearby first accompanied Mr. Mu called "Beat sink" cafe. Mr. Mu looked at photos of his hand, the staff immediately recognized them, the young man on the photo is their regular customers, often to play the game. Staff explained that the reason was impressed, because some of the unique behavior of this young man, "eat and drink Lazard sleep, are resolved in the cafe." But from the beginning of the 13th, I have not seen him coming. Reporters saw records from the cafe background, from at 10:00 on January 5, has been continued until 9 at noon to leave, only this time a small positive online time of up to four days. "We have repeatedly reminded him, but every time he said knew of." Staff said. Mr. Mu said that after his son had reported that he had lost contact with the case, police records show, only son to Internet cafes last year, as many as 416 times. "All told, 365 days a year, every day, soak in Internet cafes." This data, the reporter then Public Security Bureau in northern New mandarin duck police confirmed. reason Parents' divorce Cheerfulness becomes taciturn Mr. Mu said his rural home in Rongchang,piumini woolrich, after studying hard points teach a middle school in the county, and with a married colleague. After the birth of the son of a small positive for the mother and son to create better living conditions, he submitted his resignation to the school, to the city of a car company in sales. From salesman to general manager, and finally achieve the position of manager. Due to busy socializing, the number of home less and less. For family life, Mr. Mu pursue men outside, women inside of principle, in addition to the wife to take care of his son,http://www.52mmv.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=11961472, the money is also referred to her care. However, the second half of 2004, a debt collection phone let him fall through the ice. It turned out that he was out working hard for the past few years time, all the family money, was his wife lost his shirt gambling,nike tn pas cher, not only the house was secretly sold, also owed a debt away from home. Because creditors can not contact his wife, the other on the phone to find him. "At that time his son was 13 years old, just on the junior high school. In his memory, the mother is day and night playing cards every day, did not dare to tell me." Mr. Mu said later he and his wife divorced, his son emotion on caused great trauma, originally cheerful personality thus became silent. obsessed To play the game Two ran from midnight Nanping To compensate, Mr. Mu since his son obedience, almost anything is to buy what you want, as long as the economy can be met, he never last part is not allowed. In 2012, a small yang graduated from college, starting from the first job, they are arranged by the father. But the relationship between the small male eyes, my colleagues are always so complex,piumini woolrich sito ufficiale, plus talkative, performance is also less than ideal, more than three years he has changed several jobs. "My son does not smoke, play cards, only hobby is to go to Internet cafes to play games." Mr. Mu said, in order to encourage his son to work, taking into account the future to get married, his money to his son according to the mother in a three-compartment two mountain Mortgage Hall, 3000 yuan monthly mortgage, basically by him also. Taking into account the vapor son Bo center work, they do not want and adults live together, and temporarily in two rented a small two-bedroom. However, the son obsessed network, beyond his father's imagination. He said there was a time, two sons live in the middle of the night from two often went to Nanping company called "legendary cafes," the place to go online. "What way, what reason, hard and soft hands,http://lover.zhenyao.net/, related to him said, can not quit, no way." Mr. Mu said, because the son of the online game crazy obsession that led him to work long late last December to work but also to lose it. Addiction Refers to Internet users due to the long hours and habitually immersed in the network in time and space, a strong dependence on the Internet, that reached the degree of obsession and self-liberation of behavior is difficult to state and psychological state. Standard course of addiction are: non-working day learning objectives 6 to 12 hours continuous Internet access, consecutive three months. According to the China Youth Association for Network addiction third investigation report in 2013 showed that young Internet users in Chinese cities,http://www.elnaviero.com/spip/spip.php?article2243, more than 24 million adolescent addiction, there are more than 18 million young people have addiction tendencies. Clear up doubts Why he lost contact? Credit card cash to buy equipment to force the parent to repay 34,000 yuan Yang lose their jobs starting from childhood, a situation Mr. Mu worry more so happened, son of the phone has not connected in the state,http://periscopewebvideo.com/user/48829/fbconnect, basically lost contact with the outside world. Until January 13 this day, he posted on his QQ phrase: "will no period, I choose death!" After, QQ, SMS, telephone contact is not all on his son, so he rushed to his son's under Mr. Mu rental, saw to leave a phone and a note. SMS on the phone display, a number of banks sent a credit card calls information,piumini moncler, the note was addressed to his father's message is: a lot of things I can not and you say, I'm sorry for you, Dad. Originally, the small sun do the banks credit for cash, get money to buy the games and equipment. In the face of calls insolvent,http://www.findplan2.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=4087696, he chose to escape. Mr. Mu to let his son home safely, in search of that time, almost all of the relatives and friends launched. End of the interview, the reporter accompanied Mr. Mu and small Yang went to the banks, the credit card overdraft of money has been repaid. With interest, a total of more than 34,000 yuan. Facing each other every day Internet access At least twelve hours Most of the night During the interview, whenever he mentioned his father obsessed with online games, the little male has bowed his head, could not help but become furrowed brow, and did not object. Reporter: Why frequently go to Internet cafes? Little Yang: From my mother home to more than 10 years now, basically I am a person in life. The complexity of the relationship between colleagues, many words can not say. Always feel bored every day after work, very lonely, so I went to the cafe to pass the time. Gradually he hooked. Every day in addition to work, the other time in Internet cafes. Reporter: In the Internet mainly do wisdom? Xiao-yang: playing games, before the legendary, now playing League, at least twelve hours a day, mostly through the night. But wages enough to buy equipment, only a credit card overdrafts. Owed more than 34,000 yuan, for a fraction of the cost of living, most of them buy equipment. Reporter: how to take the loss associated with the way? Little Yang: I did not go far, just wandering the periphery, mainly on the life and uncertainty about the future. Over the years my father in the material enough for me to pay, I am sorry to find him an opening. I refused to answer the phone began behind altogether set to flight mode, the phone on the home. Reporter: In the future, what kind of plan? Little Yang: I now wake up! Full of guilt, ready to find a job, own perk up. As for the Internet, later to be restrained as much as possible. In fact, the Internet can not enrich themselves,http://www.nudistgallerie.com, actually let themselves become decadent, want other people to me as a warning. sound Kick the addiction should not be blocked sparse Chinese Psychological Association, psychologists Chen Zhilin: eliminate addiction approach as flood control,http://www.postyourasian.com, should not be blocked sparse. This event is the small sun, because the spiritual emptiness, lack of goals in life, can not find happiness, a sense of accomplishment, it tries to seek to meet in the network game. In addition,http://www.postyournipples.com, single-parent family reasons, plus doting father, leading to a poor self-discipline. First recommendation for a change, try to avoid contact with the computer, or limited access time; secondly is to feel depressed, do not want to escape from the reality of life through the Internet, you can chat with friends or go out get some fresh air; the other to explore their strengths, find reality life achievement. Single parent families need to give children a sense of security Associate Professor Cao ARTS: In addition to the children of single-parent families substance meet, but also to create as much as possible for the children in the spirit of a pleasant family atmosphere, and strive to meet the fatherly, motherly love, desire children, so do not raise more parties to visit Both parents take turns raising a child or children. Let the child know that while parents divorced, but he never lost his love for parents, safe and stable life as before. In addition, parents should cultivate children's interests more often express praise and encouragement to the children, not to harm the child's self-esteem. 

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