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Afternoon after school, Yuan Weina take his brother home. Original title: With 8-year-old brother, a 17-year-old girl with autism stick and play An 8-year-old autistic child, a 17-year-old minor "parents", the four walls of houses rented a room, this is a special "home." 17-year-old sister with his tender shoulders to autism brother's life, but can not describe their future looks like. rely September 5 pm on parent training classes Lanzhou Yan Yu Star Children's Mental Development Center, several parents of autistic children are being taught in teacher Wang Ming and exchanges, "just learned that children with autism moment, totally unacceptable. "" Strange himself in a bad mood when pregnant, influence the child's development. "" Our home is like the sky falls down. "...... Wang Ming while listening, while analyzing the reasons for the mothers, but to expand their counseling sessions: the face of autistic children, family members should be how to do, between husband and wife that what kind of attitude, and how the involvement of family members, communication division of labor to help autistic children rehabilitation and development. Yuan Weina listened carefully, took notes, her eyes uncertain confused, when Wang Ming spoke of "rehabilitation and growth of children with autism do not see the end is like a marathon, not a person will be able to carry off" time , Yuan Weina head buried in his arms, his face unable to capture. For this it is only 17-year-old autistic child "parents" who will have to practice the method of this tutorial Church, is undoubtedly difficult. Because the so-called family members, only one had autistic brother Yuan Weiming. Moreover, gold treatment of autistic children are 3-6 years old, 8 years old apparently already well past this age. When the end of the tutorial, Yuanwei Na received a mother's phone, she hurried ran out, but half an hour later came back black face, red eyes like a crying, talking about problems Shiyou brother and mother disagree. She put together your own emotions, to pick another brother school classroom. working with other children together under the teacher's guidance on "physical education", three children running game, several other children recovered well, standing on the edge of the dancing, laughing, shouting, "Come on,http://211.86.128.2/gjjl/Review.asp?NewsID=595," Yuan Weiming quietly sitting in a chair, turn a blind eye on the front of the scene. Even after seeing her sister, his face has no expression appears. "Ming Tsai, we went home." Because it is Cantonese, Yuan Weina has been so called brother. Yuan Weiming sister came to just hold hands, throat issue several vague "ah" sound. Standing on a crowded bus 128, seems today better mood, he would not catch the bus handrails, but turned and got into her sister's arms, his hands clasped neck, collected from time to time in the past pro about her sister's face, or is severely pinch sister Chin - pinch people unique emotional expression, whether he was excited, happy, irritable, sad, he would pinch people hard, arm, back or neck, everywhere was pinched out brother bruising. It was halfway off, his brother sitting on the vacated seat, himself still standing in the crowd. Missing sister, Yuan Weiming suddenly anxious issued "ah" sound, the people become restless until the Yuan Weina through the crowd standing around, Yuan Weiming gradually quiet down, he stretched out his hand tightly clutched the hand of her sister lived,http://www.radio-gresivaudan.org/spip.php?article1768, like It is clenched his only rely on this earth. misfortune Yuan Weiming just rely on, for only 17 years old minors Yuanwei Na, it was like life can not shirk. "I obviously was not so big head, why they have to put on a big hat?" Really bitter, insist on not going down, Yuan Weina will give birth to such resentment, but it is only a flash of resentment only and will not affect her care of his brother. and have had a happy family, by 2006, they and their parents had a happy family of four,http://www.51yam.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, living in Qingyuan, Guangdong, until 3 years was found to be autistic, the family began some minor changes occurred. A mother with children with autism rehabilitation agencies and to Shenzhen to do the treatment, in memory, then rehabilitation training brother is very significant, only a week after treatment, his brother learned to use a spoon. Perhaps the mother of all energies are devoted in the son, attend to family, father and mother's feelings, then there is a crisis at this time, until eventually developed into a divorce. Yuanwei Na was sentenced to the mother, while Yuan Weiming was sentenced to the father. Thereafter, moved with her mother in Hunan, Hunan and finished junior high school for a year and a half of pre-school education, and has remained in Guangdong is taken care of by her grandmother. In 2009, my grandmother died, his father had set up a new family, worry no one to take care of his brother Yuan Weina Back to Guangdong after his brother. After her parents divorced due interrupts the rehabilitation, with age the situation has become increasingly severe autism. April 2010, in order to treat the problem brother, fierce quarrel with his father, so his mother defected from home. That time, the mother has also been set up in Lanzhou new family. After Yuan Weina arrived in Lanzhou, a private kindergarten in Sunshine City and became a teacher. December 27, 2011 is Yuan Weiming birthday, Yuan Weina call to his father: "Dad,nike tn pas cher, today is the birthday of my brother, I can not go back, can only give you some money, you add some new clothes to his brother, give him Buy parts birthday gift "Who would have thought his father over the phone replied:" Money is not hit, you lose a brother. " Yuan Weina almost crazy, she quit her job, alone back to Guangdong to find his brother, then go back to find his mother and stepfather, eventually found in Guangzhou do not know how long it's been lost from of a welfare agency,http://associationflainoise.fr/spip.php?article236/, where the staff said listen After Yuan Weiming lost first was sent to the shelter, shelter staff found that he can not speak, in turn sent to this welfare agency. "My father took my brother out to play, lost his brother, he did not seek, nor alarm when looking for my brother, I decided, and so to find my brother, I must tell my father the crime of abandonment. But really Found after Well, after all he is my father, he will have to work, but also life. "In telling these, 17-year-old Yuan Weina always looked up to prevent the tears fall, take a deep breath every few moments to do , calm their emotions. Stepmother unwilling to accept an autistic child living in their own family, the father can not take care of Yuan Weiming. "Even back to Guangdong to go, it is still a man to take care of my brother. What's more, there is no suitable mechanism can Qingyuan brother to do the treatment, and where people do not accept children with autism, to see his brother would say he is a fool . "In an inspection tour of Lanzhou Yan Yu Xing psychological development of children's rehabilitation center for autistic children after training, Yuan Weina decided to take his brother to live in Lanzhou. Father agreed Yuan Weina treatment with living in Lanzhou, Lanzhou sent them, in Liu rented beach houses, accompany them to live more than a month after leaving, and will give them a month after leaving the promised 1,000 yuan the cost of living. Touches mother took out 7,000 yuan, Yuan Weina has its own scrape together 1,500 yuan to his brother to pay the first semester's tuition. But it is this 7000 yuan, let the mother give birth to a new family dissatisfaction, because Yuan Weiming was awarded custody of his father. In order not to affect the new families later in life, the mother decided to let go of this pair Yuan Weiming. 17-year-old , it would be the only people with autism rely of. life Liu Yuan Weina with his brother lived in a rented beach houses, the tunnel deep, winding, roadside sewage flowing out from time to time, exudes stench. Room on the second floor, which in addition to a bed, a small table and a simple rundown of the closet, then there is no superfluous objects. The bed a mess, because Yuan Weiming bound Yuan Weina one day all the time, so she did not have the extra energy can be rented to the temporary "home" to pack a little tidier. Yuan Weina less than 7:00 every morning to get up, and then two people wearing the clothes, wash the face of two people, two people brush teeth, eat breakfast with my brother, give him to buy some snacks to eat during the day, then rush at 8:00 20 minutes prior to Yan Yu Xing Yuan Weiming to children's psychological development center class. Morning, Yuan Weina accompanied his brother to do rehabilitation, afternoon, she also has to accept the teacher's counseling center, so that the center can be the right approach with the teacher's treatment of . After arriving home, Yuan Weina start cooking, she wants to ensure that before 19 o'clock meal, to his brother, bathing, washing clothes, the only way she have enough time to put on Liu Beach night market stalls, it is currently The main source of livelihood to support her and of. Yuan Weina stick burning hot water every day to his brother bathing clothes, because every day of training will fall a lot of ash in the body, she did not want to let Yuan Weiming looks dirty. Place and a place to live Yuanwei Na stall is still some distance, she single-handedly holding the Yuan Weiming, single-handedly carrying bags, moved step by step, Liu Beach Night Market. Yuan Weina selling a variety of trinkets, mother previously opened a jewelry store, then do not open, no inventory process,piumini woolrich sito ufficiale,http://www.postyourshavedpussy.com, Yuan Weina will be sold. She felt that she sells are some useless or outdated stuff, but perhaps crying too hard, and perhaps cheaper, are one yuan two yuan of the total, or someone will buy it. Business is one of the best night, Yuan Weina sold more than 120 yuan of money, one of the worst nights sold three dozen yuan. With the money to his brother Tim Yuan Weina autumn several pieces of new clothes, but also support from siblings normally lives. But, these trinkets sold more less, the remaining running out. Yuan Weina sell something, Yuan Weiming sister obediently waited at the side, entertain, and never noisy. He is keen to tear everything can shred things, but things on my sister stalls, he will not move from. Once Yuanwei Na saw his brother to leave the stalls, thought he was going to run around, they shouted him back,http://211.86.128.2/gjjl/Review.asp?NewsID=595, no one thought is to pick Yuan Weina Yuan Weiming did not pay attention to fall on the roadside trinkets. Sometimes Yuan Weina carrying heavy bags deliberately say Oh well, ah, Yuan Weiming just seem to be able to understand the words of her sister, put his arm is also woven into the mobile belt go. "If my brother was a normal child, he was the more clever!" This is good hypothesis is supported by the power of her go all the way. Of course, she did not expect Yuan Weiming would recover to a normal, healthy child, she just hope that one day Yuan Weiming life can take care of themselves. But, this day have to go far more difficult, Yuan Weina no idea. hope Yuan Weina decided to change house. Paternity before because more than a month, so rented a suite, the monthly rent is 400 yuan, and now she wanted to ask the owner for a single room a monthly rent of 200 yuan as long as brother and two people who live not so big house, half a month can also save expenses. Every night before going to sleep, like a teacher Yan Yu Yuan Weina will star as the center of psychological development of children, continue to give repeat some simple instructions, or tell stories. "I heard a saying, is that autistic children have a father who, before going to sleep every night will give the children a story, a story book, my father,piumini woolrich sito ufficiale, who read a total of 37 times in his first 38 times of reading When his children can finally repeat the story in the book. Maybe I always harbor luck, my brother who always want such a miracle could happen. " he said. Miracles do happen, although not as successfully. One night, Yuan Weina holding house only a toy - a time when her teacher sent students in kindergarten Winnie the Pooh, constantly on repeat: "Winnie the Pooh to myself, do it in and say hello, please Ming Tsai and it shook hands. "Repeat a few times, Yuan Weiming seems to understand the words of her sister, really hand holding the Cubs. very excited, she kept repeating: "Ming Tsai,air max 90 pas cher, touch bear's nose." "Ming Tsai, touch Bear's eyes," "Ming Tsai, touch Bear's mouth." Yuan Weiming who are all doing the right thing.! Yuan Weina excited cry, tired of Yuan Weiming soon asleep, Yuan Weina sleepless. Another time, Yuan Weina hear brother facing the wall, containing containing bully cry of "sister", but that is only once and never heard. Yuan Weina not imagine if one day, Yuan Weiming really can clearly call out "sister", they will be in any mood, sad but also happy, or is crying. "Since the beginning of class, he really changed little by little. Before, I give him a shampoo when he would cry trouble, not wash, shampoo behaved now, and he'll be with me now eyes on the TV, and eat delicious, occasionally showed me to eat, when people pinch a lot lighter than before. "Yuan Weina are subtle changes in the observation brother every day. And Wang Ming Yan Yu,scarpe hogan online, director of teaching and training the star center of the psychological development of children's progress also affirmed : "When I first came, Ming Tsai seems to be afraid, denied access for all, and now he has a good will to take the initiative with others . "to hear the words of Wang Ming, Yuan Weina's face spread vibrant smile. At a certain moment, Yuan Weina will suddenly give birth to this idea: "If the brother sent to welfare agencies will happen?" But soon would be its own negation:. "Welfare agencies do not do rehabilitation for my brother." brother's love for everyone touched by Yan Yu Star Children's Mental Development Center, a part of the cost reduction them, and for siblings to apply for the One Foundation of Ocean Paradise plan. "Quota has been approved, the funds after the like, Ming Tsai Grants can receive a monthly $ 600." Center of the main he said. 600 yuan per month, far can not solve all the problems facing and his brother, but it's warm, it should be able to bring hope and strength to each other's siblings some brave front row. future "I do not know if I can stick to the day." Yuan Weina said. She never thought to give up his brother, but also think of the future look like life. Father of his brother's attitude has no more hope, and mother is to give up a lot of persuasion Yuanwei Na brother. "You have your own life to live, you can not be a lifetime with your brother." Mother always said so. Once, on education and the fate of issues and mother had an argument in the street. After his mother left, grievances plus unbearable psychological pressure, Yuan Weina squatting on the street crying, pedestrians have looked at her with strange eyes, Yuan Weiming tightly against her sister around, maybe he read the sister's pain and helplessness, but can not express comfort with the normal way, he started wildly pinch the back, Yuan Weina has been crying, been pinched, until the back of the hand is brother pinch swollen. Since then, Yuan Weiming sister's mood seemed to understand, see Yuanwei Na cry, he would start crying, Yuan Weina laugh, he will laugh along. "I can understand the mother's practice, after his brother was sentenced to the father, and she has a new home, a new life. In fact, before my parents did not divorce, and her mother,http://www.fjvip.org/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, like me, devoting himself to his brother." say, even for a lot of his father's practice, are willing to try to understand:. "After all, he is a big man, could not accept his brother like this, but with a really bad brother" and the father of the family, many relatives sarcastic, Yuan Weina although I think angry, but do nothing. She tried to 17-year-old mind to understand all options, only to face their future life overwhelmed, she was afraid of being asked about the future of everything. "Do not ask how I was going to do later in life, do not ask my brother's tuition after the end of this semester how to do, do not ask me no heating in winter the house how to do. I'm not the stove, my future did not look, I just know that every day now, I can only too. I also understand that I do not have such a responsibility and obligation to his brother, but if I give up, my brother how to do? "These words, shouted out tearful, sad, and Despair is also mixed in there, spewing out. "I also had a stand when, but I can not hurt my brother,http://www.nudistgallerie.com, can only hurt myself, and I thought about self-mutilation." When such a terrible word are used to modify a 17-year-old girl bloom, life will be unbearable weight contaminated cruel colors. (Text minors pseudonym) Text / Chart reporter Zhao Li 

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