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  1. Octogenarian bus five hours a day just looking for someone to talk to December 11, Baisha Road, Changsha,louboutin pas cher, Chen dad at home behind closed doors. Sitting in front of a rare afternoon sun for a sun. Reporter Dan photo<br>Lonely Images<br> <br> <br> <br>Parents whom Forgotten<br> <br> <br> <br>Daily sitting in a car<br> <br>December 9, 2013<br> <br>Jiangxi Fenyi County, an old woman cast a 20 yuan by bus, sit back and forth three or four did not get off. Granny son, daughter usually busy with work, one person alone at home feeling lonely, then bus to pass the time, loneliness.<br> <br>December 2013<br> <br>861 3-way end up sitting on the road, then sit 3-way ...... Taiyuan, an old man alone at home due to feeling lonely, I went home to change with the recent bus depot by bus to pass the time.<br> <br>May 2011<br> <br>8:00 every day, according to Peter Lee, who lives in Fuzhou city and his wife get on the bus, sat down terminal from the starting point. Two elderly people to stay at home too Mende Huang, had the car out of boredom.<br> <br>November 2010<br> <br>Jinan,louboutin soldes, a 70-year-old last six months sitting on a trip with the bus, sit twice a day, four hours to find someone to talk to.<br> <br>Core Tip<br> <br>85-year-old Chenzhen Bin Changsha, commuting back and forth several times a day, just to find someone to talk to;<br> <br>Changsha disabled elderly Wang Hongliang hand disease attack, the streets a week still take to the streets to sell balloons, because at home bored;<br> <br>Jiangsu Granny because the children did not come home for a long time, visit award established;<br> <br>Sichuan old professor spent 100,000 yuan funeral held puppy;<br> <br>Beijing Granny Nanny want to go home because of the New Year and suicide;<br> <br>Dalian Granny pressed toilet because they are lonely at home playing ......<br> <br>They are empty nesters around the country because of loneliness and took various "extreme" template,http://bbs.laixue.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=16713.<br> <br>When the pension problem more urgent now, and the elderly social problems caused by extreme loneliness, in a gesture of concentrated outbreak presented in front of us.<br> <br>■ Hunan Huasheng all media reporter trainee reporter Wang Wei Lin Rui new<br> <br>Elderly frequents bus five hours<br> <br> <br> <br>Always said, "not to"<br> <br>Just days without rain, crossing the 85-year-old who lives in Baisha old Chenzhen Bin will certainly go out early, stroll the streets. Away from home, he sat most is the bus.<br> <br>December 8, Chen father came to take the 123 bus Bus Station, 10:30, Chen father boarded the 703 bus.<br> <br>Autumn Road industry is 703 bus drivers, the car at 12:30 or so to reach the terminus Xingsha gray port district, Chen father still leaning on the seat beside the old man picking up cans hanging.<br> <br>See Chen father looked out the window in silence, but did not get off the meaning, Autumn Road industry kindly reminded:. "Daddy, the station, and to get off"<br> <br>Heard remark, Chen father shifted his body. Autumn Road industry thought Chen father ready to leave, he himself went to the control room shift off first.<br> <br>However, to be Autumn Road business lunch return the car again, Chen father still sitting in place, and looked out the window. "Daddy, this is the terminal, how can you not get off ah, you go ah?"<br> <br>At this time, Chen father spit out three words: "not to."<br> <br>Suspect Chen father might be sitting on the station, will start the car industry Autumn Road Bus Station direction to go through.<br> <br>15:00,http://www.worldalmighty.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=2315, the car once again returned to the Bus Station, Autumn Road sector glimpse in the rearview mirror, Chen father still sitting in the car, take a look here,ralph lauren pas cher, look there.<br> <br>While the small passenger car, Autumn Road industry can not help but ask again where Chen father lives, "your old sat in the car more than five hours, where uncomfortable not, or can not find home?"<br> <br>In this regard, Chen father's answer still is: "not to."<br> <br>He was sent back to ten times a month<br> <br> <br> <br>Police recognize him<br> <br>Helpless, Autumn Road industry had to report to the police.<br> <br>Sometime later, the Changsha Public Security Bureau Public Security Traffic Management Bureau of the police rushed to the scene Chan Yat, "I saw Chen father feel familiar, is not the first time to send him home."<br> <br>In fact, Chen father clear thinking, can address the family is asking Chen Yi-long before unspoken. "He does not seem to want to go home."<br> <br>However, when Chen Yi-Chen father will send home, Chen is ask their father to eat apples,http://tuonela.s138.xrea.com/lightbbs/light.cgi?res=3487, but also about leaving his sedentary.<br> <br>Chen Yi-an understanding to know, his wife Chen father passed away many years, his son died of cancer three years ago, now divorced daughter with each other.<br> <br>Chen father's daughter Chen Ling (a pseudonym) to maintain livelihood by selling sugar oil Baba, the father of the police to go out and back, she seems to have become accustomed to -<br> <br>"The recent two or three years, as long as the weather is good, he will go out. There are ten times a month are sent back by police."<br> <br>"Every day I get up in the morning more than four stalls, juggle, he does not also have to help out, so I worry about."<br> <br>Speaking of his father, Chen Ling full of grievances, "usually less we communicate, understand each other less and less."<br> <br>Take a bus because lonely day<br> <br> <br> <br>He wanted to "speak"<br> <br>December 11, Chen father did not go out. When reporters arrived at 10:00 at his home, he was sitting in the house in a daze. Dark gray pants, brown jacket almost completely peeling, long-brimmed hat, Chen father still is December 8 with her dress.<br> <br>See reporters visit, he moved a chair to sit down the door, took out a cigarette from the hat,http://211.86.128.2/gjjl/Review.asp?NewsID=595, the ignition smoked two and extinguish it back brim.<br> <br>To chat, he is not shaking his head nodding is hard to listen to his words out.<br> <br>Zhao said the neighbor, father Chen clear thinking, but do not seem to know how to express, "probably too long nobody spoke to him of."<br> <br>Reporters took the book to write down questions: why walk out every day. He hurriedly wrote: casual walk. That Chen dad would write,http://kiyop.com/cgi/kiyop_bs/yybbs.cgi,polo ralph lauren soldes , Zhao stunned, "Chen original father would write ah, also written so well."<br> <br>Ask, the bus is for what? Chen father and a pen to draw a word: talk.<br> <br>Reporter's notes<br> <br> <br> <br>Do not let the old man lost in solitude<br> <br>And a few days in contact with Chen father, step by step we approached his small world. He sat every day around the city of Changsha bus transfer, the purpose is just to find a person to talk to. Can be frustrating is that people speak of him with the purpose to find out, but no communication because for too long, resulting in the ability to speak almost disappeared.<br> <br>The source of all this, is lonely, lonely not marginal.<br> <br>This had to let us ponder, we spread for thousands of years "feedback type" pension, whether should be changed, change change?<br> <br>In the West, after the children full-fledged, mostly elderly people living alone, and various forms of social pension is fully able to meet the needs of the elderly. Maybe there are a lot of people can not accept the way the West pension, but if we can imagine, in the generation gap more obvious now, and how to get the elderly to form their own circle, rather than get lost in solitude.<br> <br>Today, more and more private nursing homes appear, these hardware and software are excellent places, whether it can gather more of the elderly, so that old people in the courtyard facing the spring, pat landscape and talk about right now.<br> <br>At present, home care,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/ebest-dvd/0000000948743.html, community care is yet to be improved,http://cand.qee.jp/link_p/apeboard_plus.cgi?command=viewres&target/;/, while Chen father and hundreds of millions of children who, whether timely raise children put down the concept of old age, the old man is really into the nursing home circle, to find a person to talk with their ?<br> <br>Experts say<br> <br> <br> <br>Ride is public, it is lonely<br> <br>Changsha Liu Zhenghua psychology experts say, because many elderly people feel lonely go by bus, take the bus, it is lonely. "On the one hand to pass the time, one can look around the landscape. In addition to substance, parents should be concerned about their children's spiritual needs,polo ralph lauren, some effort, so that parents have their own interests circle, relieve loneliness."<br> <br>Reporter survey<br> <br> <br> <br>Half of the elderly would like to live in nursing homes<br> <br>Ageing intensifies in the city, while the first generation of one-child parents began entering old age, family "421" model is rapidly increasing,http://www.sulmetais.com.br, the traditional "raise children to old age" model is being challenged.<br> <br>Home care, community care and nursing home pension, pension for the elderly of view, what is it? Reporters randomly visited 25 elderly people to investigate.<br> <br>72-year-old Li Xiaoling Xijie and his wife now live, "the boy although not far away, we do not want them to live, there is a generation gap. After not move, we are willing to live in a nursing home, do not give children trouble."<br> <br>16 respondents expressed their willingness to stay nursing home for the elderly, and another six elderly people pledged to obey the arrangements for children, the other three people firmly rejected the aged, "it is the only retirement home land, regardless of the children in not, I have to live here. "<br> <br>(Original title: Changsha octogenarian bus five hours a day just looking for someone to talk to)<br><br>

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