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  1. <br>Drawing Liu Yixing<br> <br>Home wanted to go home the next day, but pride made him farther and farther<br> <br>April 2,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/lens-deli/y-2-acad-mail.html, 13-year-old Xia Fei (a pseudonym) secretly took home 2,000 yuan of money, and then ran away from home, away from home 30 days, he was removed to Nanchang, Fujian, Guangzhou, Dongguan and other places, and finally living in Sichuan deceived by adding "Pengci" gang. After a failed "Pengci" associates was abandoned, living on the streets, the police found back to the police station. Looking back to the parents, he was afraid of losing face, he refused to go home. At the moment to see the parents, the family were crying. Finally, in her sister's persuasion, Xia Fei decided to go home. (Newspaper reported May 23)<br> <br>Perhaps many years later, recalling this summer will fly to childhood experiences. The evening of May 22, when the reporter received a phone call this 13-year-old boy has been able to calmly recalled the experience of the past month.<br> <br>He said that through this month, more than 13 year of his past experiences are many. "In fact, running away from home the next day, I wanted to go home, but felt too ashamed afraid of being beaten." My father said from the summer, the children return home after more sensible than before, they are also trying to change the child's education.<br> <br>A home<br> <br>Trip "Dangerous" tour<br> <br>Recalled the scene when away from home, Xia Fei said he later thought many times, still feel scared. But then only think of one thing: "It must be a wonderful journey." However, he never thought this was a trip "dangerous journey."<br> <br>Performance declined repeated scold<br> <br>He wanted to see the outside world<br> <br>Summer before flying home in Jingdezhen best junior first grade,scarpe hogan outlet, elementary school every year and the top three among the different class, he felt a bit hard to learn. Test scores is getting worse, learning more and more pressure, but because of these reasons, a full-time mom at home mother always scold him, the idea of going to school in his mind circling.<br> <br>Glum state continued until the end of March this year. "In the past I can say with my sister, since her sister went to high school,http://marvelous21.sakura.ne.jp/enkaijoh/light.cgi?res=264, there are some things I do not want her to say." Xia Fei said his father work outside the home more than a year, rarely call back. Upset when,http://www.postyourblowjob.com, computers will open summer fly aimlessly browsing the web. Online "worlds" made him yearn for, he had mentioned his father, I want to experience the outside world.<br> <br>Xia Feiti out looking for work for the idea, the mother can not understand. The evening of April 1, did not hold back her anger, she shouted to his son. That night, summer fly did not sleep. He thought to myself, maybe go out and see the time. He searches the Internet, it is easy to find a job in Guangzhou. April 2 early in the morning, he, as usual back bags out the door. The difference is that the bag is not filled with books, but a few pieces of clothing, school is not the destination, but the bus station. In this way, filled with more than 2,000 yuan of money secretly from home to take the summer to fly away from home.<br> <br>I wanted to go back home the next day<br> <br>Self-esteem him farther and farther<br> <br>Before leaving home,http://www.mood88.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, summer fly confidently think, everything will not go out too hard, "Later I discovered that this exodus is not only easy, but also very dangerous."<br> <br>Home that night, he was the first train in Nanchang, Nanchang, and then from the car to the neighboring province of Fujian. He would like to be near the station to try to find a job, he went into a barber shop said she wanted to learn to do shampoo work, because not get identity cards, he ate a cold shoulder. After that, he went to restaurants,louboutin soldes, karaoke bars and other places for a few days to do the waiter. During the probation period, work intensity is too large, to make him feel too much. At this time, his money already spent half ......<br> <br>"In fact, I leave the house the next day, I regret it, want to go home." Xia Fei said, frustrated after looking for work, he was filled with contradictions. He secretly asked himself, or else go home? But, away from home has always been his decision, also stole money from home, then go back too shameful. Strong self-esteem and the fear of being scolded home, so he quickly rejected the idea. Rebellious and complex psychological pushed him forward, summer decided to fly, or to go to Guangzhou to see. Guangzhou stay a few days, he car to Dongguan. Just left the bus station in Dongguan, a grown man came over approached and asked him if he wanted to do temporary workers, can introduce him to the shoe factory. In this way, the shoe did fly summer days. Adult men also proposed, to Sichuan it, you can make big money. Summer can be a fly to make money,scarpe hogan outlet, so I agreed. He never thought this was a trip "dangerous journey."<br> <br>Participation "Pengci" 10 days<br> <br> <br> <br>Very afraid of being killed by truck<br> <br>Remember the summer flying to Chengdu Railway Station in late April, and police found him was May 1, about 10 days apart. These 10 days, his collarbone was broken, was "Pengci" gang took in Meishan, Ya'an and Chengdu fraud.<br> <br>Chengdu from the train station, and that adult males fly summer handed a bottle of drink. "Drank the bottle of water, I nap, wake up, feel abnormal pain left shoulder, collarbone where red and swollen, feels like broken bones." Xia Fei said.<br> <br>He looked up and saw four or five adult men sitting in a dark room. Later, he learned that the group of people in front, is a professional "Pengci" gang. And he has been in Meishan, Sichuan Province. Groups of people forced to participate in the summer fly "Pengci", but without success. A few days later, he was taken to the Ya'an summer fly. "They let me sitting on the bike, I'm afraid, really hit the truck was really dead."<br> <br>In Ya'an, summer fly first successful "Pengci", especially when he was nervous, sitting on a bicycle seat, the person next to him to make a direct hit on a large truck, already injured shoulder, and then fell to the ground a pain he could not speak. On that occasion, the truck driver decided to compounding,tiffany outlet, summer fly thus get a sum of money, but he was soon handed over to the gang's leader, leader, said:. "The first money I exist here, later given to you."<br> <br>Where the summer fly "Pengci" gang, usually divided into two groups, the group where he has three people, leaders nickname iron brother, responsible for the vehicle to drive to the barrier "Pengci" and another adult man nicknamed " dead fat man ", playing summer fly" cousin ", and then play summer fly accident victims.<br> <br>Every time "Pengci" start with "iron man" open car to another normal vehicles, not just when the vehicle is ready to bypass the car, "dead fat man" riding a bicycle carrying summer fly, is to overtaking do not get hit by the car. Then Xia Fei fell to the ground, causing injury by a car crash illusion. Finally, from the "dead fat man" that "Compounding" and the other side driver money trouble.<br> <br>In Ya'an, the summer fly participate in the "Pengci" twice let the other driver money, "compounding." "Brother let me give money to his custody, then will give me, but I never got the money." Xia fly hearts full of contradictions, at instigation of gang members,doudoune moncler, he believes that "pengci" is a "big money" job, but his mind clear, this is not right. Until at Pujiang "Pengci" summer fly was kindly driver to the hospital, dead fat and iron brother fled, he was out of gangs. The next day, after he ran out of the hospital he did not dare to police, on a person wandering around until they were discovered by the police back to the police station.<br> <br>B missing children<br> <br> <br> <br>Day Break waiting<br> <br>From April 2 began, after more than 20 days from the launch of summer family ten to twenty local Jingdezhen in Jiangxi Province and several surrounding prefectures, carpet-looking 70-year-old grandmother with a cane to the streets in summer Look for. However, the results are not satisfactory. Family panicked and did not know how to do ......<br> <br>That his son ran away from home<br> <br>Mother dissolved in tears<br> <br>At 9:00 on April 2 just after the summer from the phone rang. Xia Fei teacher that the child not to the school. The first reaction from the summer is: Impossible! In the summer of centrifugation, the obedient son,http://narcissu.doorblog.jp/archives/15224695.html, do not like to go out to play, in the county of a designer who started reading high school, test scores are basically class twelve. In the past year, from the summer working out hard work alone, his wife at home to take care of his son. I do not know from the summer, he went out of the year, the son of puberty psychology has quietly changed.<br> <br>Summer returned home from the first time, I saw eyes red and swollen wife. "How to go?" Xia Fei's mother cried, the son of this semester examination results is not ideal, especially in the last two weeks of summer fly sitting front of the computer more and more exchanges with the mother has become even more not enough. "He told us that this semester, learning too much pressure, do not want to go to school, want to go out to experience the feeling of work, feel the outside world, but I think he may just talk."<br> <br>"The day before (April 1) evening, I said his two." Xia Fei's mother said,http://www.rawbw.com, received a teacher's phone, she was very surprised, and then found a home less than 2,000 yuan, and realized, Xia Fei It may be away from home.<br> <br>Children's home, the couple is from the summer never think of. They then call the police.<br> <br>Family carpet search<br> <br>Seventy grandmother took to the streets to find crutches<br> <br>From April 2 starting from summer to launch a whole family in Jingdezhen twenty local and several surrounding prefectures, carpet to find. First week of local parks, cafes, hotels have been found over and over from summer. "I have a missing person by broadcast television, hoping someone can provide some clues." From summer to find ways, compelling, he was outside working by telephone to call relatives back together to help find 70-year-old grandmother summer crutches streets to find. However, the results are not satisfactory.<br> <br>At 23:00 on May 1, from the summer's cell phone rang. One claimed Jiangxi local police who asked his son is not a fly called the summer, police in Chengdu, Sichuan, found him. Summer away suddenly cried out, "you must help me live to see him, do not let him get away! I'll book a ticket to come tomorrow!" He wanted to talk to his son on the phone, he refused to fly by summer. Xia Fei heard over the phone rustling sound, and summer from urgent and distressed. That night, he suffered from insomnia.<br> <br>At 18:30 on May 2,http://contest.japias.jp/tqj1998/10098/yybbs.cgi, away from the summer with his wife and daughter in Pujiang County, Heshan police station to see the summer fly yellowish face haggard. A man flew into a ball crying. Xia from hugging son, discovered summer flying shoulder badly swollen. After the police had finished listening to the whole thing, he did not know the summer fly clavicle is "Pengci" gang who interrupted.<br> <br>Son told his father:<br> <br> <br> <br> I want to go home<br> <br> <br> <br>Afraid you beat me<br> <br>May 3, from the summer journey home with his son. On the way back, son secretly told his father: "I know you and my sister to come pick me up, I was excited and scared me want to go home, but you beat me afraid.."<br> <br>The home, away from the summer did not play his son, the couple did not say even a word heavy. Only after the home, a family of four had a long chat. Xia off, said: "In fact, we are trying to change the way to treat his son." Xia from long working away from home, this turn of events, so that he began to consider his son should go home to spend time with. Xia Fei's mother and some remorse, she felt to give up work at home full-time child care, pay a lot, but maybe his own son some harsh treatment, rebellious son after puberty some consider enough, "I should listen to him say the truth. "<br> <br>After a few days rest at home, Xia offered to fly back to school, he was afraid to delay too long to learn to keep up. Since the home, parents find summer fly more sensible than in the past, but also some cheerful. Summer flying things go in school has spread, he is not shy for these, but also to accept other people's asked quietly.<br> <br>Xia from that experience after listening to his son, he was blowing scared. Today, he is more worried about his son would experience "Pengci" gang brought shadows.<br> <br>Reporter's notes /<br> <br>Warm parent-child relationship<br> <br>"Youth do not know real depression, love the upper floor. Love the upper floor, to write poetry that worry. Now I know to make real depression, Unspoken. Unspoken, but said ." This use the first word to describe the change in the summer fly inner world, perhaps more appropriate. This is a rebellious child runaway story, but also a couple of hard to find child story.<br> <br>Father of the child's lack of affection for a long time, the mother of the child hopeful urgent expectations, which are virtually, to the summer flying shoulder the burden together. Burdened with the expectations of the elders, a sudden decline in academic performance, no place to talk, coupled with adolescent rebellion and impulse, the final decision to fly summer away from home.<br> <br>After a hard to find work, deceived by adding "Pengci" broken collarbone after being abandoned again be rough experience, summer is still reluctant to fly home. This is worth pondering. On the one hand children self-esteem is strong, make him feel guilty and then go home away from home, too is a disgrace. On the other hand, the children thought of "home", comes into his head cold parents scolded, he fishes police said:. "Put me up, and I do not want to go home," the child before the good grades, home results exodus was so embarrassed, he did not know how to do, had struggled.<br> <br>If normal, the mother can understand the child's rebellious, let him feel warm; father can spend more time with children, so he had a talk "patron", give him to create a relaxed, warm feeling of home,http://thai-fopai.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=149407, the child may not easily away from home.<br> <br>(Original title: deceived into "pengci" juvenile gangs: When "pengci" I'm really afraid of death)<br><br>

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