In order to formalize the adoption XuanXuan, Wang Cuiying couple running in the Civil Affairs Bureau, for half a year between the orphanage. The arrival of a small xuan changed this sad loss of single family atmosphere where laughter once again return.<br>Loss of a single family the pain of adoption<br> <br> <br> <br>Unauthorized adoption procedures was stopped 3 years abandoned "daughter" is facing challenges on households<br> <br>Newspaper chief reporter intern Peng Sha Jiang Gewei text /<br> <br>"Mom, help me to open the milk." 3-year-old xuan Wang Cuiying to the side like a baby.<br> <br>"Small XuanXuan, hungry yet? Mom immediately give you milk." Fifty years old Wang Cuiying, immediately took the hands of a small xuan milk. Aside Shuangbin grizzled husband happy face and looked at her daughter playing with toys.<br> <br>October 13, Chung Yeung Festival, is the first section after the elderly newly revised "elderly Protection Law". Chung Yeung Festival eve, "Legal Weekly" reporter walked into this particular family.<br> <br>One day, a sudden car accident six years ago took couple's only son. To this end, Zhu Jianhui overnight white hair,http://asayake.jp/thc/epad/epad.cgi, his wife Wang Cuiying in tears all day.<br> <br>Until April 25, 2011, the arrival of a small xuan changed the sadness of this loss of single family atmosphere where laughter once again return. Two years later, nearly 3-year-old xuan future issues facing the need to go to school accounts. Fifty years old couple small xuan Ueto issue everywhere but disappointed. They often looked lively child absence: "Are we doomed to die alone respect?"<br> <br>◎ son's death, the couple let the spirit of near collapse, began the night night insomnia:. "He left the first few months, we have in mind is blank,http://www.ito.dz/spip.php?article74, every day do not know what they're doing."<br> <br>◎ back to the house Zhu Jianhui saw this scene: wife Wang Cuiying was holding the baby has been crying cajole the baby cries less and less, and finally fell asleep behaved. He saw the face of the long-lost lover smile.<br> <br>◎ orphanage told Zhu Jianhui, can do to help their adoption procedures, but must first pay the sponsorship fee, girls pay 30,000 to 3.5 million, and to change the child's age by two years. The hospital said they could not guarantee the final adoption to the couple Zhu Jianhui is XuanXuan. Zhu Jianhui immediately gave up the way for adoption.<br> <br>A white-haired people who sent hair accident<br> <br> and Wang Cuiying had a happy family of three sons born in 1987 a cheerful handsome boy.<br> <br>October 10, 2007, on the eve of his son Zhu Zejun upcoming 20th birthday, the accident happened. "He rode to send express, in the past Renmin Road overpass when suddenly a car accident, on the way there is no sign left us ......" Zhu Jianhui talking on moist eyes, and so he and his wife knew his son suffered accident, is already two hours after the accident. "After the hospital morgue to see his son dead bodies, I do not know how he later got home."<br> <br>Zhu Jianhui memories, his son Zhu Zejun although during his lifetime has not love reading, but very filial sensible. "Before he retired, I've been doing sewing factory in 1992, I had an accident on a motorcycle, can be said that the gates of hell to go back, for a disability retirement, he led the meager pension." Wife Wang Cuiying no fixed work, precisely because of economic conditions at home has been bad, so that my son Zhu Zejun gave up on college, he decided to go out to earn money to support their families.<br> <br>January 2007, Zhu Zejun enter a courier company to work. "I remember when he first took 840 yuan a month salary,http://0taku.livedoor.biz, to $ 400 for his mother. Later,woolrich outlet, monthly wages, the son will come up with a portion of the family income, I did not expect for less than nine months ...... "Zhu Jianhui again wet eyes," our son's ashes placed in Xiangtan home,scarpe hogan, and his grandparents buried together. "<br> <br>Son's death, the couple let the spirit of near collapse, began to sleep all night all night:. "The first few months he was gone, we mind is blank, every day do not know what they're doing," Zhu Jianhui told reporters, "just a few days, my hair is white sideburns,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/wide/61892.html,woolrich outlet, shave the beard did the night all white."<br> <br>Zhu Jianhui and his wife had tried to raise a child regeneration, to dilute the family's lonely. But because of a serious car accident occurred before Zhu Jianhui, plus son left his day with excessive alcohol paralysis himself, the doctor told them, want to become pregnant then the probability is very small, spend a few million, but have not seen hope after the couple gave up.<br> <br>Zhu Jianhui brother gave birth to three sons, brother, brother to understand the pain of lost love child, they often let their children come to accompany aunt and uncle. Nephew Zhu Jianhui, who lives two years later, or return to his home.<br> <br>Single Family regain lost heaven baby joy<br> <br>Around April 25, 2011 two in the afternoon, taking a nap in and lover, suddenly heard outside the house came a loud firecrackers.<br> <br>The couple opened the door and found lying on the ground a loud crying baby, placed beside a light blue milk bag, which contained a can of powdered milk and some small toys. Baby infant is exposed to a white note particularly conspicuous, says "Maomao born at 9:40 on April 21, 2011, due to my limited family conditions, voluntarily give up custody,http://hsagg.net/bbs/home.php?mod=space&uid=464781, adoptions hope well-intentioned people, grown up, please . "is also accompanied by a note on the back of a white discharge maternal medical certificate, as stated above, the baby preterm children, health than weakness.<br> <br>Zhu Jianhui immediately chased out, but found no traces of feeding infants and young people.<br> <br>Back to the house Zhu Jianhui saw this scene: wife Wang Cuiying was holding the baby has been crying cajole the baby cries less and less, and finally fell asleep well-behaved. He saw the face of the long-lost lover smile.<br> <br>For yet fully grief from the death of his son to come out of the couple concerned, this heaven cute baby girl brought them sustenance and joy. April 25, 2011 afternoon, Zhu Jianhui and his wife make decisions, they want to raise this baby was born only a few days.<br> <br>This lovely baby girl became the couple's only loss this spiritual make up their spiritual son left blank. They gave her a very nice name - xuan.<br> <br>"Life is always to look ahead, thinking only one way." After the calm mood, Zhu Jianhui said with a smile, "Since XuanXuan came to our house, and I love the people step by step to come out from the pain of losing her son . "<br> <br>Small xuan almost 3 years old, she happily sat on the floor playing with toys, raised his head from time to time to milk and milk sound gas and spoiled wife Zhu Jianhui, a cry, "Dad, Mom," is especially lovely.<br> <br>Zhu Jianhui couple with children on a regular basis every month to check the health and epidemic prevention station,http://cdurable.info/spip.php?article700, the child just sent when the epidemic prevention station checks out XuanXuan anemia, calcium deficiency, the body is somewhat weak. "After XuanXuan full moon, in order to enhance her physique, we bought her a swimming barrels per day put her inside swim three or four times."<br> <br>Zhu Jianhui said he often pushed the stroller to take the kids along with scenery, pedestrian walks, let her contact with the outside environment, more natural wind blowing. From the child began to walk, he took her out for a walk, let her learn to walk, so XuanXuan now has been very active and healthy.<br> <br>Zhu Jianhui XuanXuan brought up one hundred days time to shoot artistic photos and a family of three photo, photo looks warm and natural. But Zhu Jianhui told reporters, accompanied by XuanXuan grew up in the process, he and his wife have repeatedly embarrassed. "We take the kids out to play, a lot of times people will say you look lovely granddaughter ......" Whenever this time, he and his wife have some dumbfounding.<br> <br>The "daughter" on households everywhere<br> <br>Today, Zhu Jianhui 56 years old, can receive a one thousand dollars a month pension. The family income is mainly derived from the rental, after the death of his son, where they lived before the demolition, after the demolition of houses and facades compensation for rent, one year's rent is pretty enough that a family of three spending the weekdays.<br> <br>Starting in September 2011, in order to account the problems of small xuan, Zhu Jianhui began to frequent back and forth between Tianxin District of Changsha City Bureau of Civil Affairs and welfare, but because of various obstacles, the account has not run down.<br> <br>April 27, 2012, a magazine published in Changsha, Zhu Jianhui message XuanXuan want to find birth parents,moncler Outlet, but has not been below. Zhu Jianhui told reporters that he did not want to send XuanXuan orphanage, because the orphanage to adopt a child is registered in order of rank allocation, "if XuanXuan sent to the orphanage, the last certainly not go back to our side." Until now, he and his wife are hoping to find the child's biological parents to help the child on the account.<br> <br>"Every time I saw other children carrying a bag to go to nursery school, XuanXuan clamoring clamor will go. But do not account, it means not go to school. Children are innocent, which is unfair to her." Zhu Jianhui Seeing positive lovingly happy playing xuan said:. "Just help XuanXuan on the account, so that she can, like other kids happily go to school, I'm willing to take any responsibility" for the future, Zhu Jianhui said he adequate psychological preparation.<br> <br>A reporter from October 15, 2008 in Changsha City Bureau of Civil Affairs Social Welfare Department stamped "adoption registration regulations" was informed that the district administration to focus on domestic citizens occurred prior to April 1, 2009 adoption privately, since under this notice Rise of the day, the citizens pick up abandoned babies, all reported to the local public security departments,doudoune moncler pas cher, and parents can not always be sent by the other guardians of the local police department or the civil affairs department of social welfare institutions designated raising mechanism upbringing.<br> <br>Earlier this year, he went to Changsha second welfare advice and was told that the hospital can not be directly adoption. Later, after lobbying Zhao Shuren, the hospital told Zhu Jianhui, can do to help their adoption procedures, but must first pay the sponsorship fee, girls pay 30,000 to 35,http://210.153.114.222/cgi-bin/tkbbs1/tkbbs1.pl?page_num=1]sexually,000 yuan (boys more expensive), and you want to change the child's age by two years. The hospital said they can not guarantee the final adoption to the couple Zhu Jianhui is XuanXuan. Zhu Jianhui immediately gave up the way for adoption.<br> <br>"Can not tamper with the child's age." Zhu Jianhui immediately refused to change the age of two years older small xuan proposal. Zhu Jianhui worry, if the age of bigger, the schooling of their children and have a child two years older than their classmates, after its growth adversely.<br> <br>Privately unwanted babies has been halted<br> <br>At 10:00 on October 9, the reporter with couple came Tianxin District Civil Affairs Bureau Advisory abandoned baby adoptions, Ms. Su is responsible for the registration of adopted children explicitly told reporters, national policies and regulations, after the April 2009 private adoption secretly abandoned all infants procedure closed. Zhu Jianhui couple secretly adopted this behavior is illegal adoptions of abandoned babies, the Civil Administration has now discontinued this abandoned baby adoption procedures, you must go to the orphanage.<br> <br>"Although Zhu Jianhui family is missing only the family, but the state has not only lost family against unwanted babies has opened a special channel, we can only act in accordance with the provisions." Said Ms. Su.<br> <br>October 11 morning, "Legal Weekly" on the loss of unwanted babies home alone issues related to an interview request made Changsha City Bureau of Civil Affairs, Civil Affairs Bureau and a "worried unfamiliar business" and commissioned on behalf of Changsha, the first orphanage answer.<br> <br>Changsha, the first orphanage dragon ring to this reporter, unwanted babies processes include: first the local public security department report, so that the public security department to investigate whether the problem involves the sale of abandoned children; public security department confirmed that no questions,http://kehuelga.org/diario/spip.php?article1060, then to welfare organizations (welfare) bid for adoption procedures, and newspaper publicity; if abandoned unclaimed and in the case of adoption, to the Bureau of Civil Affairs of running an adoption registration.<br> <br>Long ring, said after April 2009, the behavior of any individual abandoned baby adoptions have been stopped, it should be sent to an abandoned child welfare agencies, through the legal procedures for adoption. Long president also said that "in June 2009, the state has issued a new regulation on abandoned baby adoption, if the adoption has been the fact that, according to the actual situation of adoptive families, welfare agencies to apply for an abandoned child adoption or foster care procedures." Long ring is recommended to consult abandoned adoptive family adoption center in Hunan Province.<br> <br>"For our children's future and the legitimate rights and interests, if there is no way, I'll take the kids and wife, holding a big sign on the street to ask for help to find the child's biological parents." Running in the Civil Affairs Bureau, six months between welfare long, and frequently encountered disappointed Zhu Jianhui said.<br> (Edit: SN094)<br>
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