<br>Under one roof, something "too lazy to say" only computer chat QQ, send text messages. Last week, a couple will divorce Therefore, both the psychological expert advice. Experts say this is a typical "web chat dependency syndrome", is a common problem many young white-collar workers. & Nbsp; reporter Zhang leaf<br> <br>Send text messages to call his wife pour<br> <br>On Saturday night, who lives in Yuzhong District Daping Street No. 140 Yang Min watching television in her living room, the sound of mobile phone text messages from the coffee table.<br> <br>"Help me a glass of water." Text messaging is a computer made husband Qin days Fetion (a way to send SMS with a computer chat software), he was in the bedroom the Internet.<br> <br>"The same at home, something not speak, but send text messages, what does that mean?" Yang Min heart unhappy, turn a blind eye to the message.<br> <br>Less inclined, then the sound of loud message: "Help me a glass of water did not receive.?", "How you going" two bursts of flying letter urging her husband, Yang Min is angry,Piumini moncler outlet, determined not to ignore?.<br> <br>At Yang Min secretly angry at the same time, Qin days also face anger from the bedroom: "?! TV to send the three messages so nice glass of water so that you do not move," Qin Tian believes that his small request wife are not met, they failed to meet the duty of a wife.<br> <br>"Lots to talk about before marriage,http://www.parasayo.jp, married not something I want to talk." Yang Min said, do not know when her husband came home got into the bedroom to open the computer, in addition to food, clothing and other necessary communication,doudoune moncler, almost can not tell a superfluous words; if they both Internet access, even in the same room, sleeping, and other necessary communication out, the husband is absolutely QQ; if he did not the Internet, send her husband to use a computer Fetion. As a couple, but would not speak with their own, she felt her husband this is a change of heart performance.<br> <br>For this three messages and a glass of water, the night, which the couple married less than two years, an unprecedented brawl broke out, and even mentioned divorce, after the Cold War into.<br> <br>AC had become accustomed to computer<br> <br>They mention that the odds of divorce, friends have to do the work of persuasion. Yang Min's friend, the South Bank area Patrol Detachment of Deng Jie believes that the two did not change of heart, and adhere to the other side there is a problem, but to suggest that they find psychological experts to clear.<br> <br>Monday morning, the two leave, went to Concord psychological consultation. Director Tan Gangqiang quickly identify the problem: 33-year-old Qin days, Yangjiaping is a decoration company chief designer. Daily work is mainly done by computer design, even communicate with customers, and many times is done on the QQ, then QQ transfer pictures and comments immediately after the feedback changes. Qin said the day, because of the design work requires a lot of concentration, need a quiet environment. Normally, very few people speak office, even if something happens between colleagues not to disturb others, mostly computer through QQ, MSN, e-mail and other communication.<br> <br>Slowly,http://www.jinkouren.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=11209, Qin days accustomed to "speak" this is not the way of opening, even if others are not online, but also something more than send text messages, phone calls do not love. Unconsciously, this habit will bring back home.<br> <br>Web chat addiction is widespread<br> <br>"This is a typical web chat addiction." Tan Gangqiang said, although the disease is a new term in the field of psychology only appeared in recent years,http://blog.zhongdaokj.com/article.php?type=blog&cid=1&itemid=645031, but the young white-collar workers are not uncommon. Because this is a different degree of psychological addiction: Because intervention computers, mobile phones and other modern tools, convenient communication between people, but many people enjoy the convenience, while ignoring life itself. Because Internet chat with a fixed expression, etc., have nothing to say when available instead of the expression, not embarrassment of cold field, and therefore vulnerable to Wangchongmen sought. Serious and even communicate only With these tools, it will not become true when speaking with people face to face.<br> <br>(Paper party is a pseudonym)<br> <br>"Web chat addiction" Seven Symptoms<br> <br>1, regardless of something all right, as long as the conditions will open the computer, boot the first customary login QQ, MSN.<br> <br>2. Typing quickly,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/uchiyama-sports/dan-da911510-1-a.html, master all kinds of trendy words the network,piumini moncler, at least five QQ or MSN and other chat tools group.<br> <br>3,http://www.boatbuilders.us, to find the status or pay attention to others,piumini woolrich, not talking, but rather on the QQ, MSN, or online chat, or into space, on the blog.<br> <br>4, just like typing, do not like to talk. When a friend received a call, hang up the phone often to chat online. Even the office only one step away in the same room, often with the exchange of information: "lunch," "good" "That now starting," "elevator see."<br> <br>5. Online friends can talk about anything, do not know what to say after that meeting. Call a friend and found nothing to say, but all day long SMS numerous contacts.<br> <br>6, a mood fluctuations, immediately for signature, change information or change picture, as had obsessive-compulsive disorder.<br> <br>7, make new friends, before adding QQ,http://shop.koro-jp.com/?pid=16007268, without equal not know this person.<br> <br>"Web chat addiction" more harm<br> <br>1, language skills degradation, lack of social nutrition.<br> <br>2, the more talk the more lonely and endanger health.<br> <br>3. Other disorders: Not long ago, Hangzhou Street Technology Xiaozhu collar workers suffering from bad breath, Hangzhou Stomatology Hospital Experts believe that after diagnosis, "net chat addiction" is the culprit: Oral like a room, if long-term shutdown, it may produce odor. Long time no speak, inadequate secretion of saliva, can not properly clean up residue on the tongue, to the bacteria provides a good environment for growth and reproduction.<br> <br>How to deal with the "net chat addiction"<br> <br>1,http://www.54qingdao.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, forced off the network,http://sozialistische-arbeiterstimme.org/spip.php?article1147, as long as the work is not necessary, try not to open the computer.<br> <br>2, take part in social activities and friends.<br> <br>3, no Internet, mobile phones and other communication tools and irritability, with listening to music,roshe run soldes, watching TV, sports and other ways to divert attention.<br><br>
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