<br>"New York Times' weekend supplement freelance writer Daphne? Merkin success, had a daughter in appearance, different from ordinary people, only she knows, as a" disease of age "more than 40 years of chronic depression patient, she has been in the past every day battle with hopelessness.<br> <br>Merkin's recent decision to discontinue a long history of psychological treatment from the beginning of childhood, and memories of the treatment record book, perhaps she was "new" opportunities or just a brief "spreading rumors."<br> <br>From the age of 10 to receive psychological treatment<br> <br>Merkin, 56 years old, she received psychological treatment period spanning 45 years. Beginning in childhood, psychotherapy has become her life indispensable part.<br> <br>For Merkin, the depression brings despair and sense of abandonment familiar. She said that whenever their own look at childhood photos, you will see when the own shining eyes and smiles. In the eyes of others, it is a innocent child; I know only Mo Kim, when she was like any other depression,moncler Outlet, put on a pair of "I'm fine" mask to face the world.<br> <br>Merkin From about the age of 5 or 6 years old, began to feel anxious for the future life. She always felt that things are not in their own desire to develop, in part because even though she was born in a family of many children, personal opinion is difficult to get attention.<br> <br>About 8 years old,M1WvBbt6cG, and their parents away from home out of fear and anxiety, Merkin refused to go to school. 10 years old,doudoune moncler pas cher, she began to cry more than often, we had to go into hospital for treatment.<br> <br>Mo Kim said she did not know at that time whether it has been diagnosed with depression, but after a few years in retrospect, a child to go to school, it is chronic depression patients do not want to leave home performance.<br> <br>1950s to 1960s America, is Sigmund? Freudian psychoanalysis most popular period. At that time, to see a psychiatrist is a fashionable and even be proud of. However, a 10-year-old child received psychological treatment is still rare. Therefore,doudoune moncler soldes, Merkin first time to see a psychiatrist, psychological filled with shame.<br> <br>Worse, to her doctor Walsh doctor Merkin different religious beliefs, the latter preconceptions think there is a gulf between the two. Even Walsh doctors sympathetic attitude let Merkin doubt.<br> <br>For that time silent gold, both inside and outside the clinic belong to two worlds. In the outside world, whenever she spoke,, someone to listen; and inside world, people tend to ignore her, and thought her anxiety for no apparent reason or for ridiculous reasons.<br> <br>End of the tunnel is a train<br> <br>In 40 years of experience in medical treatment, Merkin to more than a psychiatrist or therapist doctor, tried various drugs or treatments. According to her statement, it is a depression treatment methods and drugs "living dictionary."<br> <br>Previously,Jxoia426NB, you see a new psychiatrist, to try new drugs or treatments, silent Waldo expect miracles happen, I hope this can be completely cured of their disease. However, once again disappointed to let Merkin gradually lose confidence. She said that 40 years, we always in a psychiatrist's office to talk about love others, spoke about how eager own death.<br> <br>Mo Kim said, in a way, once a person suffering from depression, we will never completely heal. It is in a corner of the human heart wandering lull due to treatment and re-accumulation of energy to be making a comeback at some point.<br> <br>Mo Kim said she increasingly difficult to understand how others could see the bright side of life, give yourself hope. Wake up every morning, her mind is always such a thought: Why are you so there is no hope. too late. give up. Go back to sleep. hopeless.<br> <br>Compared to the general population, patients with depression always see the dark side of things. Merkin hit a vivid metaphor, it's like people walking in a long tunnel, see the end of the tunnel appears bright. In the eyes of ordinary people,Ld7HsPb2EV, the light outlet means; and depression will think: Is not that an oncoming train is what<br> <br>Mo Kim said she knows many people will be treated as suicide coward and selfish behavior, but she believes that with the longer duration of depression, sicker patients will gradually be regarded as the only way to get relief suicide. She said that did not commit suicide because of worry about their daughter's death will bring great harm; but at the same time, she always felt her departure means that the patch was removed and the head of the clouds.<br> <br>Merkin wrote often to the media, about his struggle with depression experience. From her text, you can clearly feel her pain.<br> <br>"Lack of human touch,All You Need To Understand Ab," the psychiatrist who<br> <br>Merkin recalls his contact with more than a psychiatrist. She said that these doctors are men and women of different ages, the treatment methods used there are also differences,moncler outlet milano, but most doctors have in common is that they lack the human touch. Mo Kim believes that in the eyes of these doctors, he was just mental illness,lpq3SOJ5rg, rather than a flesh and blood person. In their view, the treatment of unilateral acts, patients seek treatment, doctors prescribe, the process is not a mutually interact.<br> <br>One of the doctors strongly recommend Merkin receive that shock therapy, in total disregard of her fears; a doctor treating forced Merkin memories of past traumatic experiences, and finally to the collapse of her admission.<br> <br>Merkin more than 30 years old, her mother had a doctor for help, which is recommended Merkin had intermittent contact with her boyfriend of six years of marriage, that it can do to alleviate her condition. But in fact, Merkin was canceled a few months ago in this marriage with her boyfriend.<br> <br>The doctor and the mother of the view that Merkin, Merkin is a loyal person, the possibility of "derailment" divorce is unlikely. Then, after a hasty wedding preparations after three weeks after the meeting. Mo Kim said he "got married" is the possibility to reduce the occurrence of repeated.<br> <br>Marriage outcome is Mo Kim and her husband divorced five years later.<br> <br>Mo Kim recalls her childhood, never had a psychiatrist so she sat in my lap, give her comfort; 40 years, doctors have never do anything to stop her, even if it is debatable. Doctors always talk about her illness with no emotional rhetoric, he had never put their feelings.<br> <br>The only exception is A doctor. Mo Kim said he accepted his 20s treatment, even though they often quarreled when to see a doctor, but A physician is the only one to make her feel to get their approval, you can completely trust the doctor. However, A Doctor soon died of illness. Until now, Merkin still think he is the person most likely to bring a miracle.<br> <br>These therapeutic experience, so Merkin depression treatment, should not even question the treatment should be implemented. She sometimes that a doctor practicing medicine just for money, not to help the patient.<br> <br>But rely doubt<br> <br>Mo Kim said, 40 years of experience of treatment can not bring myself to say, although "chronic illness into health," but for psychological treatment the doctor gives when she was familiar. Doctors often say that psychotherapy can "transform" the patient or give them "breathe new life", but that is not always the case.<br> <br>According to Freud, psychotherapy is not a method to find a cure mental illness, but rather "hysterical misery" into "common misfortune." This means that there is no psychological treatment strict criteria for judging progress of treatment, there is no exact treatment goals can not guarantee no recurrence of the disease, it can not determine how much treatment is sufficient.<br> <br>Mo Kim questioned said that if Freud said is true, then what is the significance of the treatment methods of treatment take effect she believes that in the absence of strict standards, the patient is difficult to determine at what stage the progression of the most appropriate treatment, which most effective treatments and doctor's commitment to the patient's comfort if only "blank check."<br> <br>Mo Kim believes that in the field of psychological therapy, doctors tend to rule the entire industry. For example, can not determine the end of the treatment time, even if there is no progress in treatment for a long time, doctors can also continue to implement the original plan. Meanwhile, doctors can be attributed to the lack of progress or the patient does not try to "resist" treatment, rather than lack of treatment options exist.<br> <br>Mental illness expert Robert? Michels in "psychoanalysis and its discontent," one paper wrote, the patient's view, "the purpose of the presence of a psychologist or therapist is not to provide services for them." "Patients want to answer, the doctor asked them questions; patients want to suggest, does not allow doctors trained to do so; patients want to support and love, the doctor explained the disease and etiology; patients want to feel better, but doctors talk about personality changes. "<br> <br>In addition, psychologists use different methods of treatment, although there are differences, but there are a lot of overlap, so effectively determine which treatment becomes more difficult.<br> <br>Mo Kim said he considered by the minister to stop treatment. On the other hand,iUr80O4jrx, 40 years of experience treating psychiatrist and her dependence treatment, worried that once could have stopped bad consequences.<br> <br>"Breath of fresh air."<br> <br>Although for many years plagued by depression, Merkin still completed graduate studies to become a literary critic, essayist and novelist. She has worked in New York, a number of media, now is a freelance writer, "The New York Times' weekend supplement, the 1980s also published a novel.<br> <br>Not long ago, to the L Merkin doctor's office, telling the latter decide to implement a year and a half of treatment interruption. As this is a complete end or suspend, Merkin did not give the exact answer. To her surprise, L the doctor did not say her decision was a mistake and tried to persuade her to give up, but agreed to her request,O0H0k31jCG, while showing enthusiasm Merkin can always come back for further treatment.<br> <br>Mo Kim said that she took pleasure to be free of fear and worry about the deterioration of L leaving the doctor's office. The way she deliberately slow down, step by step, step on the ground, it seems that this method can confirm her existence. She found left psychiatrist, the world still exists.<br> <br>Merkin is writing memoirs about his years treated for depression experience. She wrote to the "New York Times" weekend supplement articles written, she does sometimes have doubts psychotherapy, treatment made her feel trapped in an unpleasant childhood experiences, their own money spent on treatment boondoggle . But she acknowledged that her psychological treatment benefit in some way. By accepting treatment,nike tn pas cher, she can from other people's view of themselves.<br> <br>"You can say that psychotherapy is my valve," she wrote, "Give me a psychotherapy can talk to local, express their feelings, to help release the pressure in my heart."<br> <br>"Psychotherapy is my buffer, while pushing me forward; after all, it allows you to introspection, teach you recognize the fact that if you let me years of therapy formation is dependent, I decided it was a breath of fresh air when the ....... but I'm sure in the near future, I will certainly go on the road to another psychiatrist clinic, continue my story. "(Lin Hao)<br> <br>Related Links: American Depression become thorny problem<br> <br>According to the 2005-2008 survey, US adults over the age of 20 suffer from depression about 7%.<br> <br>US Department of Health and Human Services announced in October 2007 a survey report on the United States in different occupational groups in the incidence of depression. The report shows that in the 21 categories of occupational groups most likely to suffer from depression are people who work in the personal care, such as infant caregiver, nursing home care and other workers, the incidence rate as high as 11%.<br> <br>The second highest incidence of cooks, waiters and other catering staff, of them 10.3% of people with depression. Followed by health and social workers, the incidence rate was 9.6%. Engineers, architects and surveyors have the lowest rate of depression, the incidence rate was 4.3%.<br> <br>The report also noted that people working full-time average incidence rate of 7%, much lower than the 12.7% of the unemployed.<br> <br>The survey also found that the incidence of women is much higher than the male, slightly higher than the incidence of young elderly.<br> <br>The main symptoms of depression is difficult to extricate themselves depressed mood, often accompanied by insomnia, constipation, abnormal cardiovascular condition, nameless pain and physical discomfort, so that patients suffering from mental torture also much physical pain.<br> <br>Causes of depression are complex and include genetic factors, environmental factors and personality factors. Where one parent suffers from depression, the possibility of sick children has increased 10-fold. Many patients have broken families, unemployment or poverty unfortunate experience. In addition, the introverted, do not like contact, not good to vent negative emotions people are more likely to suffer from depression.<br> <br>Because depression is often misunderstood by the people around and discrimination, so patients are often reluctant to admit that they are suffering from depression, do not want to see a doctor, the result is to make the condition worse, many patients do not seek immediate medical attention and cardiovascular disease and more serious diseases such as cancer, 15% of patients with depression and even suicide.<br> <br>The report notes that depression has become intractable social problems, the United States in recent years due to depression, loss of a large productivity, annual economic losses of up to 30 billion to 44 billion US dollars. (Lin Hao)<br><br>
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