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2006 - 2012 Hangzhou marriage, divorce registration □ reporter Yu Ji Asia / Huang Xin Wen / map Originally wanted to in January 4, 2013 (homonym for life) registration, marriage is about to start a blog good luck. I did not expect licensing 4 days, 80 small husband and wife Luo Yi and Xu Bing (pseudonym) went into the marriage registration office Yuhang again, going to get divorced. Yesterday, the Hangzhou Civil Affairs Bureau issued from 2006 to 2012, Hangzhou divorce registration data. Data show that from 2006 Hangzhou marriage registration management system has been fully established,YAyWA7n02a, the number of divorces in Hangzhou has been increasing for seven consecutive years. And as Luo Yi couple after 80 such couples, divorce has become the main force of Hangzhou. Why are more and more couples divorce? Love is more vulnerable, or more people are willing to fight a battle to defend the quality of marriage? In recent days, the reporter chose marriage guidance teacher in the eyes of the most representative of three generations: after 50, 70, 80, after the investigation. "Whole life" day licensing four days after the divorce Hangzhou increasing number of divorced 7 years, 80 couples into a "disaster area" Phenomenon Luo Yi (born in 1986) and Xu Bing (born 1987) is a pair of love two years after 80 young lovers. Both were Yuhang, a good family, and have only one child. Although the end of 2012. They will do the wedding, but in order to make a good head, insisted until January 4, 2013, only braved the snow, to the marriage registration office queues Yuhang picking up red books. But did not expect licensing less than five days, January 8, they went into the marriage registration office Yuhang again. Good luck did not bring them a good marriage,moncler Outlet, this time, they intend to divorce. "7th night we dined go for a walk, the way intends to buy some fruit to go home. I want to eat the apple, but he wanted to eat bananas, bananas should not have to buy. When sweet love, I did not expect three days before registration, the Face a. "Xu Bing strong character full of grievances, in her opinion this is not something a few apples, but Luo Yi does not consider their feelings. It also made her think of the 6th evening, she and her mother because old habits altercation, Luo Yi mother did not hesitate to stand aside. "Since he heard what the fuck, he also married his wife doing? From the calculations!" Because admission on some wrong things to buy fruit, Luo Yi has nothing, but when Xu Bing blaming his mother, he could not resist: "My mother with me to support me, I do not listen to her who listen of? from the off! " 8 am, two men walked into the black face Yuhang marriage registration office. "The family know that you want a divorce thing?" Faced with questions about marriage guidance division, they nonchalantly replied, "Why do you want to know the family? Together the knot, the sub is from chanting." But in the end, the two young men in a fit of anger or in the marriage guidance counseling division, promised to go back and think about it. But the election in the world's affection Day (12 and 12 May 2012) after 80 married couples and Nina Chen Tong, but firmly decided to end this year, January 6 for a period less than a month marriage. "Since live together, we almost every day for a variety of trivial quarrel, values and lifestyle is too inconsistent." They stand in unison: Now that you have realized that marriage is wrong, as early as possible a break, or after more painful. After 50: repressed for decades Hope was finally freed Lao Dong Lu Qing and plain dress, walked down the street and looks ordinary couples is no different. Walked into the marriage registration office,jV1RoFFhxX, they look calm, the two exchanges is very friendly,otgzg08rcW, nothing like to divorce formalities. "20 years of marriage, we had a falling out over 20 years." Lu Qing, she said the early years, divorced in the eyes of others is a shameful thing, particularly the pressure of public opinion. But the child is still small, you have to consider the feelings of her daughter, so although painful,hogan outlet online, they still been struggling to next. Daughter is getting married now, with the grandson. "We see the pain, she also advised us to divorce, and divorce is now the community on a lot of tolerance." Lu Qing said that although nearly 60 years already, but they still decided to end this painful marriage. "Since the marriage was a mistake, it is better to release each other, in the later years of each other have a little free space." Two people divorce do very quickly, because everything has been agreed in the years of waiting in the clear. And from later married, two people still leave as friends, marriage registration office. "After all,jRdIRe5tJz, there is a junior in, after the New Year holidays we ever get together." 80: Young flash flash from the marriage more and more According to Ministry of Civil Affairs statistics, from 2004 to 2011, Chinese divorce rate has been increasing for eight consecutive years. The comparison between 2006 and 2011, Hangzhou divorce rate data (followed by 1.6 ‰, 1.8 ‰, 2 ‰, 2.1 ‰, 2.2 ‰, 2.2 ‰),nike air max 90, we found that in six years, the divorce rate was the same in Hangzhou step up state. Marriage becomes sloppy yet? In Marriage instructor opinion, this is more of a defense of marital quality. "After 50 divorce rate is very low, but this does not mean high quality of their marriage." Marriage instructor early Yang said he had done a test, 40 after about 50 married people to participate in the test, 70% -80% are not satisfied with their marriage. "We just do not divorce for you." After a lot of 70, 80 juvenile impression, this is the parents who catch-phrase. In the shackles of traditional ideas and concerns of families with children, although they are not satisfied with the quality of their marriage, they drowned themselves in family life, in "Tolerance" bitter to endure a lifetime. For them, today's divorce is a rational way out repeatedly ponders. "I found from the start of 70, the proportion of women divorce more and more." Marriage instructor said that with the changes in the socio-economic and cultural development and living environment, the degree of attachment female marriage gradually reduced, marriage and more economic independence. Traditional family life for women required "tolerance" in their views on marriage in gradually retreat. "Undeniably, the greater the temptation in today's society,tn reuqin pas cher, but it also shows the 60 and 70 have a more clear after the requirements of the quality of marriage." For the moment the main force of 80 divorce after marriage guidance teacher who believes that there are a lot of people impulse divorce phenomenon. "They grew up under the doting elders, they are concerned about the generation, to live their lives, compared to marriage, they love themselves." said that with the transformation of the concept of marriage, the marriage as community after 80, I would like to pursue a win-win for marital quality requirements higher than after 70, but they lack a partner for marriage and tolerance,k9t5lTkUV1, which also allow the word divorce more easily hung in the mouth. "In different stages of society, the marriage will have their own very distinctive brand of the times, node and method for processing marriage are not the same." that the pursuit of quality of marriage is a manifestation of social progress, but we must remind 80 after the divorce impulse is not the right way to pursue quality of marriage, they may suffer. "Match refers to the degree of recognition of individual personality, individual life and family status, personal life and values." Yang said at the beginning,air max 90 pas cher, each other's individual personalities including mental state,OpoaCLKeux, if there is not yet weaned extreme personality or psychological, are required to carefully consider . The original family and personal life experiences will have a major impact on individuals. "Almost as much as possible to select the type of family, both the husband and wife so life and values will be more consistent." Yang said at the beginning, there were experiments show that only 1,000 days between heterosexual attraction. In the subsequent run-in process, the smaller the difference between the two sides, the easier run-in, but also easier to maintain freshness. The pursuit of quality of marriage is an improvement Learn how to maintain the marriage more critical Depth Marriage instructor Wu Min- reviews: 80 living in more affluent times the physical environment, and have only one child. Compared with them after 50, after 70 had a stronger sense of self, a higher quality of marriage, but tolerance decreases. Plus small are spoiled parents, although married, but after a lot of 80 improper home, lack of family responsibility, a lot of couples and no two people learn to work together to maintain the marriage. At the same time, flash flash from the marriage of young people more and more, increasing the number of divorces has also become one of the reasons. 70 after: affair and child education to the disintegration of the fuse Huang and Liu Ping did not get through the seven-year itch. Liu Ping is an accountant, working nine to five, character Gu, Huang is a sales manager, pick the body to support the family plan. 7-year-old son, lively and lovely. This is a happy family of three. Last September, the son in elementary school, but on this issue the couple turned his face. "I'm on this one baby son, I have to let him grew the best education." Liu Ping wanted his son nobility primary school, ten thousand dollars per semester tuition. And Huang is at home on the elementary proposition, "at home also need a bigger house for sets, you need to save money, but also convenient shuttle to school at home." Loving old couple fighting over every day for this. The problem also upgraded from primary school to which to blame Liu Ping Huang nothing, not money. "Just our luck follow you, even sons suffer." In the end,l8GgIqW3bF, Liu Ping Huang's words make stormed away, this marriage also draw period. Huang and Liu Ping and different, Fang Hua and Yang Min is 10 years of marriage ended in third. Fang Hua business, while Yang Min are civil servants. Three years ago, at a dinner party in China know little memory. Small memory young and beautiful, Fang Hua soon tempted develops its underground conditions. Yang Min did not hesitate to find clues after filed for divorce. Marriage instructor Li Liqin reviews: Women 70 years of education compared to traditional women gradually improve, economic and views on marriage and more independent. The status of women in society and the division of labor is more important, so when women in their baseline values appear to be challenged or disagreement, the mention of divorce easier than ever. First marriage instructor Yang Reviews - Because the extent of female bondage and attachment traditional concept is relatively high, the couple divorce after 50 army stood ratio is not high. Even personality clashes, the other having an affair, the usual choice or "tolerance." But now with the improvement of social tolerance, economic dependence weakened them some people have begun to have the courage to end his unhappy marriage and start again. And 80 different impulse divorce their divorce is often deliberate, when they divorced,tm0jeMKw3B, although the atmosphere is very calm and friendly, but are usually bent to a divorce, and could hardly persuade. 

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