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Xu Ting doing the preparatory work before the job Metropolis Daily News 87-year-old grandmother had been a body cosmetic division, 64-year-old mother has done the same work, and she went through the funeral home in almost all job experience ...... this year 40-year-old Xu Ting (a pseudonym), was born in a family of three generations living under one roof funeral. Her work and life, a reflection of the enormous changes in decades funeral workers this particular profession. Mother persuaded the pursuit of stability when the funeral workers Dressed in a dark blue uniform against the background,Vq75OHx3wS, so fair-skinned Xu Ting (pseudonym), it looks more like a beautiful temperament, rather than a body surgeons. "Before entering the Castle funeral home, I worked in a hotel as a waiter." Xu Ting said that 16 years ago, her 24-year-old, in the mother's persuasion, give up hotel staff work to Aoyama funeral home became a temporary work. Speaking funeral work reasons, Xu Ting said bluntly: "In the work here is to plan a stable." Funeral home, for many people is a matter of the heart where fear, but for Xu Ting, however, it is not new. Because the mother is a funeral home worker, Xu Ting childhood growing up in the funeral home's yard. 5 years old,capelli lunghi, Xu Ting all lived in Wuhan hostel Hankou funeral management in the public road. "At the time, that is, between the bodies we live in a small building behind the refrigerator." Xu Ting said, because only a unit dormitory toilet is located next to the cold room, so every night, she never dared a man up to the toilet. "Xu Ting said that fear go afraid, but curiosity, she and a group of peers ventured around the cold room in a circle, and entered, looking through the window, trying to find something. Into the funeral home, and we doomed to deal with the dead. Aoyama funeral home, all the staff of new entrants, both men and women should be first line exercise. "No matter which sub-job, woman must first cosmetic plastic surgery remains a job in the past, the men must be cremated at the workshop were born." Xu Ting said that this is to allow new employees "practice guts" to adapt as soon as possible in the particularity of the funeral home. From practice to practice courage to start the deceased socks Xu Ting a report to the unit, it was assigned to the remains of cosmetic make-up room, when the remains of a plastic surgeon. Despite previous, often at home, my mother and my colleagues chatted about their funeral home thing, but then there is no intuitive feel, and when she got to the remains of the refrigerator compartment and saw the body was carried out of the staff, this fear . "Before we lift the body into the dressing room will be a deep Ju Yi Gong." Xu Ting said it was out of respect for the dead. Most entered the dressing room during that time,TDq81gD08Y, Xu Ting has not started operating, but stood aside to observe and learn. "Until the work week, the teachers began to let me come into contact with the body." 16 years, Xu Ting always remember that he had the first service of the deceased, it is the elderly who died of illness. That day, as usual, she stood aside to watch, then called for her to master a hand:. "You put him to wear socks." "It was very loose pair of socks, a lot." Xu Ting recalls, under normal circumstances, this will be able to cover all of a sudden loose socks is good, but she did not stop shaking hands, wearing socks put on three times before. After returning home,extension per capelli, she put the fear of talking to the mother to listen to, but the results of the mother nonchalantly said, "that there is nothing to fear, you're right when he fell asleep, not on line yet?" Not horror movies to avoid leaving negative psychological implications From socks to the dead,lWjfM1w4hv, to give clothes, and then to make the dead lift,TN55Y3N72Q, slowly Xu Ting courage is also getting bigger. When the remains of surgeons, walked into the dressing room before each Xu Ting, she would give himself a makeup. "Finishing up their face, clients are again faced with a kind of respect for the dead." Xu Ting said. With the dead alone in a room and you are not afraid of it? Faced with questions from reporters,Do You Have What It Takes To Succeed In Music Prom, Xu Ting said: of course afraid to die,s9hu835nSR, so only kept regulate their mood, immerse yourself into work, there can be free from fear. In many people, people who work in the funeral home are great courage, in fact, not the case. Xu Ting said that she and many others, not alone through the night, even dare to horror movies. "Horror movies tend to give myself some negative psychological implications, is not conducive to our work." In operation, Xu Ting will each as their loved ones are dead, treat their loved ones with attitude to serve each object. "Only then did a clear conscience, to narrow the distance between themselves and the deceased's heart was not really scared." Xu Ting said. Fearing discrimination outside say "in the Civil Affairs Bureau to work" Despite 16 years in the funeral home, but Xu Ting's circle of friends, few people know her real occupation. "My friends asked me where to go to work, I have to answer in the 'Civil Administration'." Xu Ting said, the community, a lot of people in the funeral industry practitioners discrimination, do not want to deal with them. "Outside,jkDUfTY3ln, you say you work in the funeral home, others will cast a strange look." Xu Ting said that once, a chemical fire their units in the bus met an acquaintance, who smiled and asked acquaintances : "today and burned a few?" remark a result, suddenly, the car a silence, everyone cast a strange look, so he can not wait to have a way to seam drilling. In life, Xu Ting encountered such embarrassment. Once, one of her girlfriends to get married, asked her to be a bridesmaid,extension cheveux, the result of parents know each other's work in the funeral home, life and death do not agree to let Xu Ting as maid of honor. Therefore,ciocca di capelli, self-esteem is stimulated, Xu Ting cry for this thing at home. In order to avoid these awkward as possible, with the exception colleague's wedding, Xu Ting rarely attend a friend's wedding, to the New Year, she rarely take the initiative to friends and relatives at home New Year. Xu Ting in mind, it is like the work of the Revolution, "underground", to conceal the identity of contact with people, like with a mask as uncomfortable in your life. "Not only have few friends knew her job, and even his own daughter did not know specifically what she did at the funeral home." Xu Ting said that each school where her parents to fill out the information, she or simply do not fill, or to casually compiled units. Phenomenon From "family" to "double degree" In an interview with Xu Ting, the reporter learned that, like in Aoyama funeral home, such as Xu Ting "female parent Chi Cheng," the workers far more than her a funeral. Just won the "national funeral work advanced individual" the title of cremation line workers - Liu Jinxiu,tagli di capelli corti, her mother, had been a division of plastic surgery remains the Castle Museum, and won the honor of provincial model workers. Also, the museum has a make-up studio in Wuhan City model worker Chen Ping, his mother was also a museum remains surgeons. It is reported that, "Ms. Cheng Zhi mother," "grandchild peer" This phenomenon of "inherited his father" in the Aoyama funeral, Wuchang, Hankou funeral parlors and three funeral homes, everywhere. Aoyama funeral deputy director Yu Jiaqing, these inherit parental occupation, young workers into the funeral system, the overwhelming majority of the 1990s recruitment entry. "That's a lot of industry jobs are more difficult, with the exception of the funeral industry, but nobody is willing to do." Yu Jiaqing said that it was for this reason that children have the opportunity to make funeral workers to enter the industry. Compared with ordinary people, the funeral industry workers children, their parents monasteries, they are more receptive to this career. Yu Jiaqing said that now, in the era of development, people's ideas have changed. Now, young people want to get into the funeral home to go to work more and more barriers to entry has improved markedly. "In recent years, we have almost all of the new employees are college students." he said that last year, the museum staff, two external recruitment career preparation,XpgVTm8dXn, there are close to a hundred college students to compete and eventually recruited two are "Dual Degree "excellent undergraduates. (AFP) (Edit: SN095) 

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