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Chen Zuobing photo old son father had cultivated vegetable. He said: "I'm afraid not wait for harvest time, but Lara (granddaughter) can eat." father Chen Youjiang, perennial called Chen fat people throughout the winter is always sitting on a stone bench in front of, in front of the village playground, eye clinics before the distant mountains and the mountain, the mountain is covered with bamboo beautiful tall . People in the village that old man is sick, every passing people always want him to say a few words, when these children had with my father's, and her father in the last six months, almost all saw. Next to the bench, is a legend for generations of bean curd lane, winter, dense mist and the smell of burning wood windows and doors from the curb Plaza in pouring out, as long as the out, tofu woman he saw the old man sitting on a stone bench , and greeting the people, someone walked up and down on the playground, or sit around, dog or chicken sometimes pacing is here. Mother told Chen Zuobing father sitting on the stone bench tired to make a few calls home to old friends, old colleagues and those who work together in a bus station. Chen Zuobing remember, easy-going father almost never life and human red face,http://www.elnaviero.com/spip/spip.php?article2261, and in addition to a colleague - but in the last days, the father colleagues chatting on the phone, two people reconciled. In addition to September 2011 - December study abroad time, almost every weekend, Chen Zuobing all drove back to the village with his wife and daughter to accompany his father. Fifty-six minutes walk down the old house,http://98.131.129.31/ss/?action-viewcomment-itemid-25165, was a hill, white honeysuckle along the open, golden and crimson small Eustoma Flower wild strawberry mixed meantime, the yellow of the Sun Jian bamboo often surprise drill out, it is next to the slopes vegetable combination of several people, the mountain stream flowing down slowly, almost silently, flowing into the garden. At that time, my father also farming alone, as he said to his son, but also like to say to myself: "You see this water, little by little creek which flows flowing to Shahe inside, then Fuchunjiang Qiantang River, and finally sinks into the East China Sea, silent, human life is so ah! "these words Chen Zuobing remember. First, his father grow vegetables themselves, slowly, leaning on a cane to go see his mother sitting on edge of dry. When Chen Zuobing home, his father in the vegetable garden, said: "It kind of go food, I was afraid to eat less, but Lara can also eat." At that time was the summer of 2011. Later, lying in bed weak father, the mother called to tell Chen Zuobing day, a day which the father said, then, what to eat. 4 2012 Spring Festival, Chen is the most popular Spring Festival, all converge to Chen's brother Chen Zuobing Zhuji home, large and small, old and young. Father to each of his grandchildren have made a red envelope, only 50 dollars per year originally, this year, have become a red 200 yuan,hogan outlet, the elderly know that this must be the last of the red envelopes. Chen ate dinner, the whole family took a lot of photos, the camera when his father, always with a smile. End the Spring Festival, New Year's Day,piumini moncler sito ufficiale, because my father was seriously ill admitted to Zhuji City People's Hospital. In accordance with the wishes of his father and Chen Zuobing proposal rejected all radiotherapy and chemotherapy, is just an ordinary rehydration, symptomatic treatment, relieving pain. At this time his father has been in a coma on the eve of increasingly unbearable pain, ascites increased, the stomach has been uplift. Father after hospitalization, rarely speak, he does not eat,moncler outlet italia, the mother of the phone to say whether the father is happy today, whether to laugh, or right active and so forth. Later, in order to save telephone charges, do not disturb the work of his son, the mother learned to send text messages. Chen Zuobing remember a weekend father before his death, the body has been very weak, but still say something. That Chenzuo Bing and mother in his father leaned against the bed, she pushed aside and the oxygen tube, said quite a few things, including perception about life. The father said he may not get the hospital, and this is his life last place to stay. His ashes to be back in rural areas, buried next to her grandmother,http://211.86.128.2/gjjl/Review.asp?NewsID=595, may still be reborn son grandmother. Children grow up, do not care, to be sure the mother is better,piumini moncler, and so on. Finally, his father suddenly pointed to the hallway hurried little nurse said, look, used to give me Cabei, injections, are some 20-year-old girl, parents treasured flesh and blood, not simple ah. My father said, if possible, you have to take them ah thank thank accompany many last moment of my life,http://www.postyourasian.com, oh. Chen Zuobing hasten to say, I arranged, rest assured. I this weekend, they returned Zhuji, has been arranged in Zhuji restaurant invites those colleagues eat dinner, I must express gratitude to the family. Open water on the occasion when the mother, father and Chenzuo Bing said Chen Zuobing most worried about is the mother of the children to take good care of her, if she later also was very ill, do not let her too painful. Chen Zuobing say I will, Father, Do not worry, I promise not to quarrel with her, she said, what I promise nothing. Father laughed, relieved. Chenzuo Bing said, I want to go to work, his father said, driving slowly on the road. This is the father of Chen Zuobing final farewell, a week later, March 22, 2012, his father died. That day in the morning, about three o'clock, my mother called to tell Chenzuo Bing, his father was dying in a coma, the doctor asked not to rescue - this program Chenzuo Bing himself has done many times, pacing cardiac massage (because cancer patients with advanced cancer very weak, easily crushed ribs), tracheotomy, more than three centimeters in diameter is inserted into the tube, the ventilator 24 hours rehydration, including saline, nutrient solution, anti-inflammatories, analgesics, tranquilizers, even with the latest anticancer drugs, injections of a few thousand dollars, but also extend the life of a month or a few months, lying in intensive care unit patients indistinct consciousness, multiple organ failure gradually. After some brain death, the family doctors will still continue to rescue ...... Whether in need of emergency rescue? - Chen Zuobing think learning a second teacher in the UK Charlie, a highly respected emergency medical adviser, physical examination he was found to have a stomach tumor, after surgical exploration confirmed pancreatic cancer. Need chemotherapy and radiotherapy after surgery, the process may increase the survival rate for three times - from 5% to 15% (although still lower quality of life under). Charlie refused. He was discharged home the next day, hospital since then never step forward. He put all the time and energy on family life, Chen Zuobing heard that he was very happy. A few months later, Charlie died in the home. He did not receive any chemotherapy, radiotherapy. His insurer also save a lot of money for this. Chen Zuobing felt very interesting, and British colleagues to discuss this matter. Interestingly, the data show that there are many doctors do not like to choose to be treated. Even though they know how the disease will evolve, what treatment options are available, they usually also have to accept any treatment opportunities and ability - but they often choose not to. Also, Chen Zuobing found that in Britain some terminally ill patients in the hospital,louboutin femme,http://211.86.128.2/gjjl/Review.asp?NewsID=595, after admission assessment, often in the medical record will NCPR label - which means that the patient at risk, do not any rescue measures - that is, they hope that in the end of life, refused to extend the survival of hours or days of hope, but also refused to accept the results of cardiopulmonary resuscitation (CPR) and the consequent rib fracture. Live is the quality, not days zombie life. Death also have dignity. This is Chen Zuobing in study abroad time a little discovery. Thus,http://211.86.128.2/gjjl/Review.asp?NewsID=595, on the phone, Chen Zuobing told his mother, his father in case of coma or respiratory cardiac arrest, do not take active measures to rescue, do not bother him, let him quietly leave. More than three hours later, Chen Zuobing arrived from Hangzhou Zhuji City People's Hospital, the father has been quietly departed. 5 May 3, 2012, Hangzhou local "City Express" will be written on the Hangzhou forum doctor's notes published in the micro-Bo, this diary describing his father's final treatment process, only 1610 words, will soon be forwarded 6000 repeatedly. Chen Zuobing gradually began to receive acquaintances and acquaintances of a friend's phone, including both hospital staff, but also foreign patients, Zhejiang leadership. Cancer patients who are being tortured, from a few to nearly 90-year-old senior citizens, expect to hear the most honest advice --- whether it is to continue to do chemotherapy and radiotherapy drug therapy under the existing circumstances, or cherish the last time and loved ones together? further study in Britain Gloucestershire Royal Hospital (National Health Service non-profit hospitals), according to a medical procedure,http://bbs.cellsos.cn/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=144065, such an important decision, it first by the medical consultants with years of clinical experience to assess the progress and treatment according to the patient's condition and make a decision by two or more head doctor. In a phone call consultation, some radiotherapy works well for the treatment of this very sensitive patients, Chen Zuobing recommended to continue treatment; those tumors which develop very quickly, in patients with advanced malignant, out of caution, to see Chen Zuobing End condition information and then comment, "this is, after all,http://notreleben.com/spip.php?article7, in China." See Chen Zuobing doctor's notes, a hospital suffering from advanced cancer of the families of employees have gone home. Colleagues called to tell Chen Zuobing: "Thank you, you affect my decision." said:. "I only had a son to do something." From 1994, the first official career in medicine, saw the 12th floor with advanced hepatocellular carcinoma Zhuji City People's Hospital nurse jumped blood, already 18 years later, Chen Zuobing calmly accepted his illness brought his father's death. "If the father can decide for themselves, it will agree with my decision." He sat down before his father sat in front desk goes, fighting back tears and crying impulses. According to Southern Metropolis Daily (abridged) Share: welcome to comment I want to comment Previous 1 2 Next Page Microblogging Recommended | hot microblogging today 

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