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Data for Original title: Specifies the elderly daughter accompany allowed only son left the property to his son summary of the story Effendi was born in a small county in Guangxi village, grew up in the patriarchal atmosphere of possessions male - female and other things have been accustomed to seeing strange. So, when the mother's death five years ago declared heritage should have left when two brothers, Effendi not surprised. However, she did not expect that this year, 65-year-old mother is ill in hospital when the New Year, even distressed because two sons, allowed his son to the hospital to take care of her, even a son to see his son leave the ward thrust; conversely, is asking two daughters, 24-hour shift wait. "There is a good thing to do thinking about her son, one has things to contribute, to think of dictating daughter?" Mother approach which allows young girl A red Sister Effendi and unbalanced mind. A red Effendi and believes her brother and younger brother for many years to enjoy the benefits of mother something when they do not serve, it should pay the cost of treatment by the two brothers, and to pay the cost of care and the Arab Effendi red as compensation. Unexpectedly, the mother and sister this proposal strongly disagreed. Mother and sister said, according to the custom of the village, if the elderly sick, the son is responsible for the money, her daughter is responsible to contribute, do not care, to his daughter the truth. Because the cost of care could not agree Effendi two sisters mother disgruntled, I can not help but complain when accompanying. He had a quiet family, because this disease becomes stormy. Sister says Make things difficult for her daughter Li's mother was ill sensible personality change Just do not let her daughter accompany his son hands ● Narrator: Effendi 28 years old Youngest daughter Married with one son Her husband in the town about 20 kilometers away from her family Although we were poor, but has been fairly harmonious. Families with brother, sister, brother and I have four children. Dad died ten years ago, sick, widowed mother bringing up children for many years to a few of us, not very easy. So we rarely contradict the mother, but also mutual humility among several siblings. Our concept of village patriarchal heavy, mother naturally expect my two brother gave him pension nail in the coffin, the brothers hope to succeed. Childhood, brothers do not how dry farming, vegetables, pigs and the like live, my sister and I are done. Because the village has "Beloved Son" of the atmosphere, so when I actually did not feel anything unfair. I was married for five years ago. At that time, her brother had just married in Guangdong, sister-in-law also became pregnant. In order to give her brother a hand, favor discuss sister, my mom decided to leave home to take care of the Guangdong sister, until two years ago the children in kindergarten, she was back home. It is said that when her brother to buy a house, my mom emptied the family property, put all the money to him. And my sister and so many years, have not won a penny mom subsidies. Maybe I feel a little indebted and sister, my mom worked very hard to come back from Guangdong, vegetables, chicken,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/brandcouture/od-bag-452u.html, duck, pig, Gesanchawu give us vegetables and poultry feed. Considering the brother of migrant workers, only a mother at home alone inevitable, so the holidays, my sister and I would bring the kids to go back with her to dinner. The village people say, my mom was a capable manager sensible people. This year's Big Year, my sister back home as usual. Brother sister did not come back because of unexpected situations the New Year, my mom unhappy, Chafanbusi. Year 7 morning, the brother called to say, my mom got a bad pain, immediately sent to the county hospital. The results came out, my mom was acute appendicitis requiring surgery immediately. I'll inform the sister rushed to the hospital. After the surgery, we keep all three siblings in the mother around,Veste parajumpers, so I can laugh and cry and sister is that after the mother woke up, saw the brother waited at the side, actually said to him: "What are you doing here, I can not help you, go back to sleep. there are two of them woman on the line. " That evening,http://www.from-zao.com/cgi-bin/tkbbs1/tkbbs1.pl?page_num=1%253cbr%2B, her brother called and said he could not come back to visit my mom, my mom but the cost of the hospital, a man by his commitment to me and sister, brother is responsible to take care of the mother on the line. I think, since her brother money, and several of our brothers and sisters a point force is taken for granted. Considering I have married and sister are there to take care of children,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/gion/d-309e-b.html, I propose 3 siblings implementation of "three shifts" to accompany the hospital bed, brother and sister agreed. However, my mom quit. She said, never put his son to the mother feces urine brush truth. Now my brother not to marry a wife, if known by the people in the village to care for his mother, the mother would poke spine, but also the white house that we raised two daughters. Mom says it will do. Appears every brother in the ward, she would find fault temper, boom him home. Mom will not stop calling me and sister,hogan outlet, he urged us to hurry to the hospital with her, so brother home. If I do not go and sister, she refused infusion, pulled out of the hands of the needle. Toss down a few times, and I have exhausted sister. The families of patients in the same ward,louboutin outlet, several brothers and sisters have the misconception that we do not filial piety and mutual buck-passing. Sister says Her preference for sons Contribute money to buy her son a wife When she married her daughter to nothing ● Narrator: A 35-year-old red Sister home Married with one daughter Her husband about 10 km away from her family My mom never recognized her son preference. But she and I lived together for 20 years, she did a lot of things that I see in the eyes. Before I did not say that she is hard for so many years, I can not claim too much for her; now, from the time she was hospitalized immediately that her bones on preference for sons. If this time I gave in, after her sick every time, we will be required to serve personal two daughters, his son had no such requirement. I also married, have their own little home to take care of. My grandfathers and grandmothers have died a long time, my husband and I are doing odd jobs, only to give the child time each night to cook, counseling her homework at home there is a big stall things waiting for me. Mom asked me to be, but every night to accompany the night, this is not deliberately make things difficult for me? My brother is not married, the mother obviously have time to care,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/menscasual/s-pants-22-menscasual.html, liberal and does not depend on him to take care, but my mother was distressed him, allow him to keep in the ward. I work during the day, at night to accompany the night, I'm not tired? I'm around a lot of elderly people confined to bed, are in turn take care of several children,http://reverse-seo.net, the cost of medical treatment by several children shared equally. If there are children unable to care for it, then money money, a strong contributor. So I think that, regardless of the mother is sick, or need support after she was old in need of care, we should be men and women, four siblings personal responsibility. However, two years her mother's share of the savings and just a few million land compensation payments gave my two brothers, brother marry my mom dig the money to buy a house, and my sister and I did not enjoy what to. Therefore, in accordance with the principle of equal rights and responsibilities, the primary responsibility for the maintenance of the mother should be made to bear my two brothers. Yesterday, my sister and I made a plan: We are two sisters responsible for nursing mother, but the cost of treatment, care should be borne by the two brothers. Because nursing mom, my sister and I can not work normally, the two brothers two sisters, one o'clock we subsidize home should not do? Mother and sister do not agree with my point of view. Sister also cynical to say, never heard of her own mother care but also money. Mom said that a son is the family line,roshe run pas cher, her son to support their families; raising daughters map is someone to take care of the old. In fact, I do not care for the mother to pay some more. The problem is that every family has a good thing, my two brothers are accounted for, and my sister never parts, once something needs to contribute, we think that this thing who who who gladly put it? I think this thing if handled properly, will have the same or later contradictions arise. Mother said So all the village Not want to be behind the village gossip In fact, the same love for children ● Narrator: 65-year-old Ms. Blue Widowed farmer He has two sons and two daughters Palm back of the hand are the meat, a few children, like me pain. However, since ancient times are the sons inherit the family business, old people will live with his son and daughter, two sons, I definitely want to think of some more. Besides, my little son to marry a wife yet, if we let him serve me,louboutin homme, which girl would dare marry here? In our village, the elderly are sick daughter wait. After all, care for the elderly live like a bath brush, or daughter more convenient, the man is not a piece of material. His daughter is married, that is someone's home wife, and I am old and can not go to her husband lives,http://cutyayu.sakura.ne.jp/cabbs/sunbbs.cgi?mode=form&no=116&page=, so possessions left to his son is normal. Several law and will continue to inherit the family property of their respective thing. The eldest daughter of her husband's family was worse, her life's bad, I know all that. I was going her way slowly to save some money. For example, the eldest son of each month to my meals, I will save $ 200,http://recit.cadre.qc.ca/~cmi/spip.php?article34, want to wait a few thousand dollars to save time, and then secretly to the eldest daughter. I am a man of honor. The village's relatives to the hospital to see me, to see if his son in the care of his mother, people would gossip behind. We are very particular about where these men are the mainstay of the family, do not even enter the kitchen. If the home to the guests, when the woman does not serve dinner, only eat in the kitchen. This is a custom place, although I do not patriarchal, but not to collect the rules, lest someone poke my spine, I said I would not do for the elderly. I do not know why, I became inseparable after sick people. I am especially afraid of suddenly fell, suddenly see a few children, so these days I always ask two daughters around. Everyone says I'm like a baby,http://store.shopping.yahoo.co.jp/ebest-dvd/0000000789985.html, in fact, not the case. Is particularly dependent on her, they want to see more glances. After they married, I have not a chance to get together with the children. Editor: Li Tianyi 

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