<br>Yesterday, Dengguo Xian (pseudonym) stroking his son Xiaohui photos,piumini moncler sito ufficiale, silently remembered: "Xiaohui, could you talk to you and Dad?" But his son never to speak,http://associationflainoise.fr/spip.php?article81, fixed in a thin figure in the photo. In Dengguo Xian eyes, 18-year-old grew up Xiaohui not naughty,http://www.fcperivegauche31.org/spip.php?article96, not fun, study hard, but learning pressure recently,louboutin femme, I wanted to rest it. Son chose to jump from the 6th floor home,http://www.thomassankara.net/spip.php?article1353, Dengguo Xian still can not understand. He said: "Until the child before the accident, I have always thought Xiaohui live a happy life."<br> <br>18-year-old boy jumped to his death<br> <br>Dengguo Xian to reporters about his life in the most painful day --1 4, New Year's Day is done and leave to go to work the first day.<br> <br>Day 11:00, the unit he met his wife Liao Yulan (pseudonym) call. Twice before he hung up,http://211.86.128.2/gjjl/Review.asp?NewsID=595, the wife kept calling, picked up the phone, only to hear his wife crying, over 2 minutes, before choking back tears, said:. "Son was hurt and come back."<br> <br>Went to the cell door, Dengguo Xian see neighbors talking, people are usually familiar with the bow too hastily, he kind of foreboding. Downstairs house cordoned off,http://211.86.128.2/gjjl/Review.asp?NewsID=595, a lot of people watching, paralyzed wife sitting side, eyes glazed. He came to ask "how exactly" his wife saw him, tears flowed immediately, frantically shaking his shoulder and said: "My son is dead ...... ...... to jump from home ......"<br> <br>Dengguo Xian mind went blank.<br> <br>Parents only value results<br> <br>Dengguo Xian,http://www.postyourflasher.com, 46, a business unit of work, 42-year-old Liao Yulan opened a restaurant, the family good condition.<br> <br>Liao Yulan said that after Xiaohui birth, Dengguo Xian busy at work, she is also busy with business, to put Xiaohui grandfather with her mother, just pick up the kids at weekends together, busy time together once a month only.<br> <br>Xiaohui grew up,http://211.86.128.2/gjjl/Review.asp?NewsID=595, and Liao Yulan Dengguo Xian also have a certain economic base, but they want to reclaim their side when children, old people said to do nothing, and the children do not want to separate from her mother grandfather, they had to send their children stay in the elderly in.<br> <br>Liao Yulan said she felt that children only learn, will amount to anything. Therefore, as long Xiaohui good grades, no matter what he wanted to meet him. For school, Xiaohui performance has been good in the eyes of the Liao Yulan, the son is a sensible obedient good doll.<br> <br>Great reading senior Changes<br> <br>Liao Yulan said that last September, started preparing for college entrance, Xiaohui like a changed man, very quiet, a home from lock yourself in the house. "Xiaohui also complained, he said, do everything feel boring."<br> <br>Xiaohui abnormal let Dengguo Xian couple worried that they decided to let his son on leave,http://associationflainoise.fr/spip.php?article236, etc. Xiaohui state better, consider college or study abroad. Last October, Xiaohui dropped out, moved to live with their parents.<br> <br>Chongqing Kai Zhang Ling Road Industrial Co., Ltd. to work is Liao Yulan neighbors. Zhang Ling said that after Xiaohui moved rarely go out, he only occasionally saw a man walking in the district.<br> <br>Through a friend, Liao Yulan find new CAS child psychology correspondence university teaching Chongqing station director, hope to help children. "Tong teacher suggested to find a psychiatrist counseling for the children to do, then I do not understand." Dengguo Xian said, now home in good condition, the son wants to get everything, life did not encountered any setbacks, so happy, psychologically It may be a problem. Child is pressure, adjust just fine.<br> <br>Until Xiaohui January 4 From house to jump on the 6th floor, Dengguo Xian always thought his son had a happy life. "Grandma, Grandpa is certainly unacceptable,hogan outlet, and now say they did not give Xiaohui things."<br> <br>Expert analysis<br> <br>Children have been suffering from severe depression<br> <br>"This is the parents of the child psychological problems caused by the negligence of the tragedy." Tong new CAS psychology correspondence university teaching Chongqing station director said that learning is a social function, the children still drop out loss of social function was normal,piumini moncler sito ufficiale, it just is not normal which performed.<br> <br>Xin Tong said, and he talked in the QQ Xiaohui Xiaohui often said that the two sentences was, "her mother said I was good for nothing narrow shoulder, my father said I walk does not look good," Xiaohui heart can see very inferior. Xiaohui said entrance a lot of pressure, especially in the field admitted to college, leaving her mother grandfather live alone, do not know how to face.<br> <br>Xin Tong believes Xiaohui parents too confident, that the right to self-enforce the mainstream values instilled in children, requires Xiaohui just learning, regardless of the other, so that the child's socialization process is missing, the face of change, no self-confidence can independently solve . Entrance Xiaohui it is a huge change, if admitted to the university in the field,nike tn pas cher, he has to face alone to all aspects of life, since he saw no ability to solve, they fall into depression. Although parents to let him leave of absence, but it will still have to go abroad even his university entrance exam, which makes Xiaohui depression are not resolved, but piled up to form a severe depression, and finally embarked on the extreme.<br> <br>Experts advise<br> <br>Behaved children are often easy to Tibetan Heart Disease<br> <br>Zhu Meiyun counseling director Zhumei Yun said, showing well behaved children are often prone to problems. When children have the following performance, parents need to pay attention to:<br> <br>1, in particular, obedient, obedience too far, not assertive, listen to what others. Such children self-personality distortion, loss of self, easily become the tragic figure.<br> <br>2, to find the child's face contradiction. Some children have a strong self-demands, the parents will take the initiative to ask for things, but if such a child in learning to obey, this performance may be distorted personality precursor.<br> <br>This edition written by the reporter Chen Jing<br><br>
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